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“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.”

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  • WannabeFree
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    Morning :)

    The items of FB arrived this morning and are even more perfect than I thought. I will clean them up and make them look pretty before wrapping. Both girls are sorted now :)

    DS trainers are found and I will order next week.

    Glad to be done for the birthdays and that's it until Christmas :rotfl:

    Been to hospital and just got back, more taxi fares! £1 into a donation box and £2.20 on a coffee.

    It's snowing :eek: Hope it doesn't stay and gets washed away so it doesn't make getting to the bigger hospital tomorrow a problem :cool:

    Didn't get the bits from the supermarket but will send smalls Dad this evening.

    Hope everyone else is well

    x
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  • WannabeFree
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    February Goals

    Debt
    £100 Council Tax - £0/£100
    £60 Rent - £30/£60

    Money
    Grocery £0/£100

    To do list
    7th - My birthday Eat cake with the kids
    10th - DD at friends party
    17th - DD birthday & party

    2nd (March) - DS birthday
    4th (March) - DS party
    8th (March) - Youngest birthday

    Will add school things in.

    Lots of appointments. At least 4 a week for me and littlest ones.

    Spends planned
    Buy the Kettle!
    Birthday party (paid for)
    Make/Buy sweet cones Ordered, so lazy :o
    [STRIKE]DD birthday gift[/STRIKE] Done,
    Need minecraft :cool: Will hunt

    DS birthday gift
    [STRIKE]Littlest birthday gift[/STRIKE] Done

    Spends
    £20.82 Card shop online :cool:
    £16.25 Sweet cones
    £6 Unity bands
    £30 Cakes
    £4.40 Coffee

    ££ Taxis.. soon be into 3 figures 2 days in. :o
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  • EssexHebridean
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    Are your claims in for Council Tax Benefit and Housing Benefit?

    If you are claiming Carers and Income Support then you should get Council Tax Benefit to cover all or if not all then about 95% of it so hopefully your bill going forward will be much lower.

    Good work EE - I was hoping you'd happen by!

    Fingers crossed they'll see sense WF - there's no point in them asking for money you don't have,. and no point in you offering it either!
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  • WannabeFree
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    I think I'm going to try and stand firm with my £26 a week :o

    On 'paper' the budget set by 'helpers' there isn't even £26 to squeeze. Although as we know here my food budget is never high and neither is entertainment/clothes and things.

    The amount I was told to offer from the council advice place was a lot less than £26 a week! and that's from their own advisers!

    Which reminds me I really do need to sort my benefits and things out.
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • WannabeFree
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    Smalls are making Birthday cards and all kinds of secret 'gift' pictures. I'm banished from the kitchen - fine by me I'm quite happy on the sofa. So much so I fell asleep earlier :o
    “Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”
  • I think I'm going to try and stand firm with my £26 a week :o

    On 'paper' the budget set by 'helpers' there isn't even £26 to squeeze. Although as we know here my food budget is never high and neither is entertainment/clothes and things.

    The amount I was told to offer from the council advice place was a lot less than £26 a week! and that's from their own advisers!

    Which reminds me I really do need to sort my benefits and things out.

    I think you should stand firm Wannabe. The council can be very nasty in my experience and resort to threats and baliffs very quickly :mad: (I've been there and done that :().

    But they can't take what you haven't got, and with three young children, one of whom is ill, they will be forced to be reasonable in the end.

    By the way, happy birthday for tomorrow Wannabe and I hope you have something nice planned :) :bdaycake:
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  • UncannyScot
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    Happy Birthday :bdaycake::bdaycake::bdaycake:
    :j:j:j
    Have a great day WannabeFree :D:D:D
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  • System
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    Happy Birthday Wannabe , have a good day .x
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  • Happy Birthday! Have a lovely time with your little family eating cake.
  • Happy birthday

    Enjoy the cake

    Have a lovely day if you can

    Take care honey
    Pauline
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