Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally

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  • beanielou
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    HHD~# the bucket/wheelie is outside.
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
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  • beanielou
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    Might sound horrid HHD but i would leave them all to it if they dont help at
    all. They get the benefit too after all. Sorry, but it makes me cross.
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • HairyHandofDartmoor
    HairyHandofDartmoor Posts: 13,960 Forumite
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    I mentioned (at some length, ahem) to DH that I was feeling tired and fraught and he's offered to cook dinner tonight, so all is forgiven :D. I know DH is trying to concentrate on earning money and the DC have emotional issues, so maybe I'm too hard on them.

    Now I just need to shower and wash my hair, and then relax until bedtime :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Sun_Addict
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    Glad DH took note. You're not being too hard on them though, no excuses, it doesn't hurt to help. Easier said than done though from bitter experience xx
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  • HairyHandofDartmoor
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    No it's not easy SA, constant nagging causes bad feeling and is even more exhausting than doing it myself!.

    Our £14 tree looks lovely when it's lit up and decorated :xmastree:. One day I'm going to buy some good quality and tasteful decorations, but our cheap ones don't look too bad at all :).

    Mind you we have some nice baubles on the tree as we used to let the DC choose a new one each every Christmas :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Willowtree222
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    Make sure you do nothing too. Emotions really do wipe you out and drain you far more than you think they can.

    Sounds like a busy day, and great about the whiskey set. Lidl do a nice alcohol free mulled wine if you fancy the taste, but without the alcohol. You heat it up like mulled wine too. I know it isn't quite the same, but gives the illusion of drinking it.

    Have a good evening. xx
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    Starting afresh.

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  • HairyHandofDartmoor
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    Thanks Nicnak :). That's a good idea about the mulled wine.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • WannabeFree
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    Hope you get a good nights sleep HH
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    HairyHandofDartmoor wrote: »
    Is his middle name Victor? :rotfl:

    No:rotfl:. Should be though shouldn't it?
  • HairyHandofDartmoor
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    WannabeFree wrote: »
    Hope you get a good nights sleep HH
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    Thanks Wannabe :).
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
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