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  • Hi BG, haven't been around for a while either, but still following ur thread..... post so we know ur ok

    Sx
    'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde
  • Js_Other_Half
    Js_Other_Half Posts: 3,116 Forumite
    She posted on another thread of hers on March 13th, so I think we can all relax a little now. :)

    ( http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=1547987 )
    The IVF worked;DS born 2006.
  • Mollymop5
    Mollymop5 Posts: 2,095 Forumite
    Hi everyone.I've managed to get in touch with bart Girl.Lots going on at her end at the moment so she hasn't had time to post.I'm sure we will hear from her soon though :)
    lost my way but now I'm back ! roll on 2013
    spc member 72

  • Thanks Molly, hope she's ok, and please send her our best wishes x
    'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars' - Oscar Wilde
  • rkirstjm
    rkirstjm Posts: 8 Forumite
    I keep checking this everyday for a message from you, hope things are ok, please if you get a spare 5 mins can you just pop in and say a quick hello.
  • BartGirl
    BartGirl Posts: 510 Forumite
    Thanks everone for your concern

    I dont really know what to say

    Except thanks to Molly for updating you all

    Things are deteriorating rapidly on my end

    Bad to worse is an easy way of describing it

    I'mm coping but a day at a time

    GFN on the scene but finally looks like getting out

    Its a struggle and apart from that health been affected of both DS and I

    Have a couple of courses on so that keeps my brain occupied cos otherwise i walk around like i'm in a daze..if you've been there you'll know what i mean..

    I do come on here but cos i feel like i have nothing good / positive to say - i choose to say nothing...

    Am alright. I'll be fine

    BG
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  • Ellidee
    Ellidee Posts: 6,216 Forumite
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    Aww BartGirl - good to hear from you but sorry that you are struggling. Things CAN & WILL get better I am sure - sending loads of positive vibes and hugs. XX
    Nothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task. William James
  • pavlovs_dog
    pavlovs_dog Posts: 10,215 Forumite
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    BG this is your thread. whatever you want to say in here is ok - good, bad, indifferent. even if we can't offer practical help you will always find a shoulder to cry on and a listening ear.

    thinking of you xx
    know thyself
    Nid wy'n gofyn bywyd moethus...
  • rkirstjm
    rkirstjm Posts: 8 Forumite
    You have inspired us, you are a corageous woman. But everyone has there down days so please we really dont mind if you come on here and its all negative after all those negatives are what finally make the positives, if that makes sense. Thank you so much for popping in to say hi, I dont even know you and feel I have got close to you just by reading through these posts. Chin up girl, we are all here for you.
    I finally admitted defeat and asked my partner of 12 years to move out, it wasn't plain sailing for me and he refused to budge at first saying his name is on the rent book why should he go, its me that should be going, but eventually after making his life difficult he went, things are a huge struggle for me but my children are so much happier and that is what keeps me going
  • chevalier
    chevalier Posts: 7,937 Forumite
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    Hey BartGirl
    sorry I haven't been around, I kinda lost your thread. Sorry to hear that life has been really rough. I hope that by now GFN is out of the picture and you can get on with your life.
    And as other have said thsi is your thread. You come and vent on here girl there is no where safer to do it!
    chev
    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
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