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The Cutting Down / Giving Up Booze Thread (Part 14)

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  • PriceySOS
    PriceySOS Posts: 853 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts
    3 afd's so far including today, please. And target of 240 for 2018, please
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    November 2017

    meditate-smiley-emoticon.gif= 7 Days AF

    smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gif8CQgb2mkiIjrD5QXE4a1XWPiYIwvLvTgCzyw9l4c6TIzsgB9XkRNIw==.gif= 21 days AF

    _autumn__by_jagveress-d8r0b21.gif= 28 days AF

    Picture_263.gif= 30 days AF

    15_1_111.gif= Target Achieved

    cheer.gif= Target Beaten



    Alcohol Free Days

    AlexLK 1/12
    Arkers 17/10meditate-smiley-emoticon.gif15_1_111.gifcheer.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646
    Barny1979 28/26 meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=6468CQgb2mkiIjrD5QXE4a1XWPiYIwvLvTgCzyw9l4c6TIzsgB9XkRNIw==.gif15_1_111.gif_autumn__by_jagveress-d8r0b21.gifcheer.gif
    CathyBird 28/21meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=6468CQgb2mkiIjrD5QXE4a1XWPiYIwvLvTgCzyw9l4c6TIzsgB9XkRNIw==.gif15_1_111.gifcheer.gif_autumn__by_jagveress-d8r0b21.gif
    CuppaTea 17/18meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646
    Eltee 21 /18meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=64615_1_111.gifcheer.gif8CQgb2mkiIjrD5QXE4a1XWPiYIwvLvTgCzyw9l4c6TIzsgB9XkRNIw==.gif
    ElusiveLucy 14/14meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=64615_1_111.gif
    GreenKaren 7/515_1_111.gifcheer.gifmeditate-smiley-emoticon.gif
    Honey Bear 30/30 meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=6468CQgb2mkiIjrD5QXE4a1XWPiYIwvLvTgCzyw9l4c6TIzsgB9XkRNIw==.gif_autumn__by_jagveress-d8r0b21.gif15_1_111.gifPicture_263.gif
    MaggieM 16/15meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=64615_1_111.gifcheer.gif
    Maman 16/10 meditate-smiley-emoticon.gif15_1_111.gifcheer.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646
    Nicnak 17/20meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646
    Paspatur 7/24
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    Penelopedee /20
    Poor Single Lady 21/24meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=6468CQgb2mkiIjrD5QXE4a1XWPiYIwvLvTgCzyw9l4c6TIzsgB9XkRNIw==.gif
    Pricey 19/22meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646

    PurpleMumof2 /10
    Shaggy 19/13meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=64615_1_111.gifcheer.gif
    SlowDown 13/20meditate-smiley-emoticon.gif
    SukeyBoo 16/14meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=64615_1_111.gifcheer.gif

    Stepuptotheplate 3/10
    TakingOneDay 30/30meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=6468CQgb2mkiIjrD5QXE4a1XWPiYIwvLvTgCzyw9l4c6TIzsgB9XkRNIw==.gif_autumn__by_jagveress-d8r0b21.gifPicture_263.gif15_1_111.gif
    Tallyhoh 30/30meditate-smiley-emoticon.gifsmileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=6468CQgb2mkiIjrD5QXE4a1XWPiYIwvLvTgCzyw9l4c6TIzsgB9XkRNIw==.gifPicture_263.gif_autumn__by_jagveress-d8r0b21.gif15_1_111.gif

    WBF 5/7


    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

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  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 3 January 2018 at 3:02PM
    2017 Targets
    50x50?v=v2= 50 Days AF

    dance013.gif= 100 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifbanana.gif= 150 days AF

    :A = 200 days AF

    cloud9.gif = 250 days AF

    clapping.gif= 300 days AF

    smiley-breakdance.gif = 350 days AF

    lueknl3d124.gif = 365 days AF

    dancinsmiley.gif = target achieved


    cheer.gif= Target Beaten




    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers
    174/TF50x50?v=v2dance013.gifbanana.gif
    Barny1979
    254/27550x50?v=v2dance013.gifbanana.gif:Acloud9.gif
    CathyBird 280/25250x50?v=v2dance013.gifbanana.gif:Adancinsmiley.gifcloud9.gifcheer.gif
    CuppaTea 183/20050x50?v=v2dance013.gifbanana.gif
    DebJay 85/TF 50x50?v=v2
    DizzyImp 52 /TF50x50?v=v2
    Eltee 235/20050x50?v=v2dance013.gifbanana.gifcheer.gifdancinsmiley.gif:A
    ElusiveLucy
    146/TF50x50?v=v2dance013.gif
    FakePlasticTwee 119/TF
    50x50?v=v2dance013.gif
    GreenKaren
    106/12050x50?v=v2dance013.gif

    Honey Bear 334/36550x50?v=v2dance013.gifbanana.gif:Acloud9.gifclapping.gif
    LoveASale 50/TF
    50x50?v=v2

    MaggieM
    110/18550x50?v=v2dance013.gif

    Maman 149/TF 50x50?v=v2dance013.gif

    PollyAnna 141/TF
    50x50?v=v2dance013.gif
    Poor Single Lady 235/TF
    50x50?v=v2dance013.gifbanana.gif:A
    Pricey 215/25050x50?v=v2dance013.gifbanana.gif:A
    ScatterBrain 140/TF 50x50?v=v2dance013.gif
    Shaggy 199/260
    50x50?v=v2dance013.gifbanana.gif
    SukeyBoo
    156/150 50x50?v=v2dance013.gifbanana.gifcheer.gifdancinsmiley.gif

    WBF 107/150
    50x50?v=v2dance013.gif


    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    December 2017

    smilie_xmas_049.gif= 7 Days AF

    santa-dance.gif= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.giflittle-reindeer-smiley-emoticon.gif= 21 days AF

    smiley_emoticons_saint.gif= 28 days AF

    happy_new_year_2011_by_dragonfly113-d365i25.gif = 31 days AF

    :snow_laug= Target Achieved

    :rudolf:= Target Beaten



    Alcohol Free Days
    Arkers 15/10smilie_xmas_049.gif:snow_laug:rudolf:santa-dance.gif
    BackFrmTheEdge 26/26smilie_xmas_049.gifsanta-dance.giflittle-reindeer-smiley-emoticon.gif:snow_laug
    Barny1979 22/21smilie_xmas_049.gifsanta-dance.giflittle-reindeer-smiley-emoticon.gif:snow_laug:rudolf:
    CathyBird 26/21smilie_xmas_049.gifsanta-dance.gif:snow_lauglittle-reindeer-smiley-emoticon.gif:rudolf:
    CuppaTea 10/18smilie_xmas_049.gif
    ElusiveLucy 8/10smilie_xmas_049.gif
    Eltee 10/10smilie_xmas_049.gif:snow_laug
    GreenKaren 16/5:snow_laug:rudolf:smilie_xmas_049.gifsanta-dance.gif
    Honey Bear 31/31smilie_xmas_049.gifsanta-dance.giflittle-reindeer-smiley-emoticon.gif:snow_laugsmiley_emoticons_saint.gifhappy_new_year_2011_by_dragonfly113-d365i25.gif
    MaggieM 15/15smilie_xmas_049.gifsanta-dance.gif:snow_laug
    Maman 16/10 smilie_xmas_049.gif:snow_laug:rudolf:santa-dance.gif
    Mudbath 23/20smilie_xmas_049.gifsanta-dance.giflittle-reindeer-smiley-emoticon.gif:snow_laug:rudolf:
    Nicnak 20/15smilie_xmas_049.gifsanta-dance.gif:rudolf::snow_laug
    Paspatur 21/24smilie_xmas_049.gifsanta-dance.giflittle-reindeer-smiley-emoticon.gif
    PollyAnna 9/12smilie_xmas_049.gif
    Poor Single Lady 15/14smilie_xmas_049.gifsanta-dance.gif:snow_laug:rudolf:
    Pricey 17/20smilie_xmas_049.gifsanta-dance.gif


    Scatterbrain 6/11
    Shaggy 14/13smilie_xmas_049.gif:snow_laugsanta-dance.gif:rudolf:
    SlowDown 8/10smilie_xmas_049.gif
    SukeyBoo 12/10smilie_xmas_049.gif:snow_laug:rudolf:

    Stepuptotheplate 4/5

    TakingOneDay /31

    Tallyhoh /31
    WBF 11/10smilie_xmas_049.gif:snow_laug:rudolf:


    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    January 2018

    happy_new_year_2011_by_dragonfly113-d365i25.gif = 7 Days AF

    yay.gif= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifapplause.gif= 21 days AF

    smiley_emoticons_saint.gif= 28 days AF

    xenforo-smilies-kk9.gif = 31 days AF

    studsmatta.gif= Target Achieved

    dancing.gif= Target Beaten



    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers 1/15


    BackFrmTheEdge 2/31

    BaileysOnIce 2/19

    Barny1979 /26

    Castri09 /20

    CathyBird 3/21

    CuppaTea

    Eltee /20

    ElusiveLucy /25

    GreenKaren /10

    Honey Bear 3/31

    MaggieM /15

    Maman 2/10

    Mudbath /20


    NewMe 2/31

    Nicnak 2/20

    Paspatur 1/31

    PollyAnna 1/19

    Poor Single Lady

    Pricey 3/22

    PurpleMumof2 /17

    Scatterbrain 2/31

    Shaggy 2/17

    SlowDown /15

    SukeyBoo 2/14

    Stepuptotheplate 1/8

    TakingOneDay /31

    ThriftMonster 1/29

    Tallyhoh /31

    WBF 1/10


    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    2018 Targets
    50x50?v=v2= 50 Days AF

    dance013.gif= 100 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifbanana.gif= 150 days AF

    :A = 200 days AF

    cloud9.gif = 250 days AF

    clapping.gif= 300 days AF

    smiley-breakdance.gif = 350 days AF

    lueknl3d124.gif = 365 days AF

    dancinsmiley.gif = target achieved


    cheer.gif= Target Beaten




    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers
    /TF

    Barny1979 /290

    CathyBird /260

    CuppaTea

    DebJay

    DizzyImp

    Eltee /240


    ElusiveLucy /150

    FakePlasticTwee

    GreenKaren /120

    Honey Bear
    /365

    LoveASale

    MaggieM /150


    Maman /TF


    Mudbath /240


    Nicnak /250

    Pastpatur /TF

    PollyAnna /150

    Poor Single Lady /250


    Pricey /240

    PurpleMumof2 /218

    ScatterBrain /186

    Shaggy /249

    SukeyBoo /150

    WBF /150



    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    edited 25 January 2018 at 2:18PM
    Roll up, Roll up. A New Month, A New Challenge.
    aug-13-estonian-summer-sun-preview.pngjanuary-img.jpg
    SET A
    Target_logo.jpg

    29 days up for grabs!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Roll up, Roll up. A New Year, A New Challenge.
    aug-13-estonian-summer-sun-preview.pngHappy-New-Year-2018-Images-1.jpg
    SET A
    Target_logo.jpg
    363 days up for grabs!

    Everyone Welcome!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • Arkers
    Arkers Posts: 1,587 Forumite
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    Good afternoon everyone,
    3 please Shaggy.
    Arkers x
  • cathybird
    cathybird Posts: 15,613 Forumite
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    maman wrote: »
    Thanks cathy. I'd agree that anyone that makes cutting down desirable is helpful. I'm not knocking Dry January but for me just going back to drinking to excess straight afterwards isn't the answer.

    I get that maman and agree completely, but she doesn't say anything about dry January - she says at some unspecified point in the past she gave up completely for a month and then resumed at a much lower level, and that the change has become more or less permanent. It is true that she doesn't say when this all happened, and if it's recent then I suppose it's possible she might resume drinking more over time, but she says she is now only an occasional drinker and has switched to non-alcoholic beer for many social events, and she sounds self-aware and resolute to me. I honestly think it's quite a positive article. :(
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