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Should extra marital affairs be classified as a crime?

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  • DarkShadow
    DarkShadow Posts: 180 Forumite
    If the jails are crowded, then stuff them in there. Will teach them a lesson.

    For those who does as a couple with a third, there should be a legal agreement for this.
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  • DarkShadow
    DarkShadow Posts: 180 Forumite
    Its love and loyalty that keeps people happy and faithful, not fear of punishment.

    That loyalty doesn't give me Avios points!
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  • Guest101
    Guest101 Posts: 15,764 Forumite
    DarkShadow wrote: »
    If the jails are crowded, then stuff them in there. Will teach them a lesson.

    For those who does as a couple with a third, there should be a legal agreement for this.

    Why? Why should the state intervene in your relationship, or lack there of?


    Why should the tax payer fund prison sentences for people who clearly weren't happy anyway?


    Why do you need the threat of prison to keep a partner?


    - those are the questions you should be asking yourself....
  • waamo
    waamo Posts: 10,298 Forumite
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    DarkShadow wrote: »
    I have been thinking of this, if it's punishable by law, then people won't do it. It will result in happy families.

    What astounds me is not the fact you've had such a stupid idea but the fact you felt the need to share it.
  • motorguy
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    DarkShadow wrote: »
    I have been thinking of this, if it's punishable by law, then people won't do it. It will result in happy families.

    No. It wouldnt.

    If there is something wrong in a relationship that leads one person to seek a relationship outside of a marriage, then its not a "happy family" in the first place.
  • System
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    motorguy wrote: »
    No. It wouldnt.

    If there is something wrong in a relationship that leads one person to seek a relationship outside of a marriage, then its not a "happy family" in the first place.

    unless your like the idiot that Katie Price married who couldnt keep it in his pants..... Addiction my backside!
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  • onomatopoeia99
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    Simple answer is to not get married, as it stands at the moment marriage is a complex legal contract which is difficult, time consuming and financially onerous to break, and not needed in the slightest to be in a happy, lifelong relationship.
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  • motorguy
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    Judi wrote: »
    unless your like the idiot that Katie Price married who couldnt keep it in his pants..... Addiction my backside!

    True

    Though the point still stands - it wasnt a happy relationship in the first place.

    Lets be honest here - shes a bit of a nutter, so he was clearly marrying her for all the wrong reasons.
  • Pollycat
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    waamo wrote: »
    What astounds me is not the fact you've had such a stupid idea but the fact you felt the need to share it.

    And defend it
  • System
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    Simple answer is to not get married, as it stands at the moment marriage is a complex legal contract which is difficult, time consuming and financially onerous to break, and not needed in the slightest to be in a happy, lifelong relationship.

    Yeah but when your in love its the most wonderful feeling in the world, being married to the one you love.:)

    Pass the hearts and flowers.:o
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