When things hit rock bottom the only answer is to fight the way back up...

Toni'sfriend

Hope today is a bit better for you, Hidden.

Hiddenidenity

Thank you, tbh things are no better.

I feel like I've been hit by a train along with the overwhelming feeling that everything is crumbling around me and I don't know what to do.

Im sure normality will resume soon but who knows

GeorgianaCavendish

Hi Hidden, make sure you look after yourself - I'm thinking of you.

If you feel up to it and there are any urgent payments due this week or next, maybe speak to the creditors and notify them that things will be late/short. Then just focus on yourself and your kids.

Hope things get better really soon xx

Toni'sfriend

I take it OH hasn't turned up. Without being too personal, is he giving you money for next week? I'm only asking in case you have to start thinking about another plan.

UncannyScot

GeorgianaCavendish wrote: »

Hi Hidden, make sure you look after yourself - I'm thinking of you.

If you feel up to it and there are any urgent payments due this week or next, maybe speak to the creditors and notify them that things will be late/short. Then just focus on yourself and your kids.

Hope things get better really soon xx

Same here missus

Hiddenidenity

Yeah he arrived home through a window at some early hour this morning, he hasn't gone to work though, don't know where he's gone, don't know if I care tbh.

I will get some wages from him tomorrow I think, but next week he'll have one days wage so doubt I'll see anything tbh.

Toni'sfriend

I am just at a loss for words. I just cannot see how a grown man can act like this. Please take care of yourself and the little ones.

sashybo

Hi Hidden, sending hugs & hoping that you feel better soon.

As for OH I don't know how you cope - you're effectively a single mother but you do it brilliantly, hats off to you Hidden. :grouphug:

mummytogirls

Evening HI,

Woah what a week. Not sure what your OH is playing at tbh, he won't have a job to go to at all if he carries on like this.

Anyway, I hope you're feeling a bit better health wise now.

Re DD's trip, I'm glad its going ahead. We had to cancel something at my school recently as not enough parents paid. I don't have anything to do with budgets but I know they are tight as it is. Schools and parents alike eh

xx

Hiddenidenity

Meh to that situation it won't be fixed anytime soon so just gotta get on with it :cool:

Anyway food shop done for tomorrow from Mr S £37 expensive really but it does have some extra bits on and some store cupboard things. We have quite a bit left with not having to cook for OH so stocked up on baking things/coffee etc the things I don't buy every week.

DD has trip tomorrow so needs a pack lunch.
DS really needs to go and get his hair cut and I think I might dye mine this weekend