When things hit rock bottom the only answer is to fight the way back up...

Hiddenidenity

UncannyScot wrote: »

I know I'm preaching to the choir missus...
as long as you keep bailing out he will keep on doing whatever he likes...
if you want to stay afloat and repair the boat then kick his sorry a rs e overboard...
if he isn't doing anything to help, all he is doing is taking from you and the kids and making it harder and harder to get debt free...

I'm sorry if I've said too much...
really angry with your OH :mad::mad::mad: (as no doubt you are too)...

Whatever you do, I know you will always put your kids first :A

Don't even think chucking him overboard will fix this one Although it looks like he's thinking chucking himself over board apparently the grass will be greener :rotfl:

I have to laugh :rotfl:

Sun_Addict

Oh HI you deserve better. You're a wonderful mum, you'd all be better off without him in the long run. Please listen to everyone's advice on here xx

Hope everything is ok xx

Hiddenidenity

Well he's staying out tonight.

The kids are fed and bathed, after a day of playing outside and painting and anything else they requested.

They are all tucked up in bed smelling lovely and sleeping finally.

So I've finished my jobs, locked up and going to bed too not that I'll sleep but the house feels lovely and clean and I can't miss out on the fresh of the line and ironed bed sheets

mummytogirls

Make sure you get to the doctors tomorrow HI, sounds like you need antibiotics xx

Hiddenidenity

mummytogirls wrote: »

Make sure you get to the doctors tomorrow HI, sounds like you need antibiotics xx

I'm going to call after I've dropped the kids at school tomorrow.

The nurse for youngest had a good shouting at me earlier for leaving it so long

[Deleted User]

Hi lovely. Please go see a dtr tomorrow. Hope you get some rest tonight xxx

Doobop

Ironed bed sheets, wow! That's a good effort there

Hiddenidenity

Everything gets ironed even towels

Something that was set in to me years ago and now I can't settle till its done

One thing I won't let slide is my house work even if it takes me 20 hours a day

Honeysucklelou2

With you on the ironed sheets HI. Can't stand putting unironed sheets on beds. Did give up ironing the towels a few years ago though, except tea towels

Toni'sfriend

I feel such a failure. Don't iron sheets, towels, tea towels, socks, etc. Still, better than my lovely neighbour who refuses to iron anything if she can get away with it,