When things hit rock bottom the only answer is to fight the way back up...

System

Don't feel bad about smalls , they are with family and probably loving it. Get yourself sorted first and be kind to yourself.

Good luck with list today, I have one as well.

Hiddenidenity

I need to
Cleaning
Washing
Ironing
Hoover stairs
Clean windows
Meal plan
Bake snacks
Arrange follow up appointment needed for myself

Plan more of December activity a day
Sort November goals

More than enough for now, I still probably won't get on top of everything. Driving me insane :cool:

GeorgianaCavendish

Hi Hidden, I hope that you are ok and that the hospital appointment was helpful. Don't feel bad about taking a bit of time for yourself this week (even make it an item on your list! ) maybe use an Amazon voucher to get a book you'd like to read or treat yourself to some bubble bath and a face mask, or stop off somewhere for a nice coffee :coffee:

I hope you will keep using this diary, even if you use it for your to-do lists rather than debt busting. Take care of yourself

Hiddenidenity

Thank you x

I have definitely took more time to myself this weekend than any other time

Hiddenidenity

I need to
[STRIKE]Cleaning[/STRIKE] Ahh love the feeling of it all being done
[STRIKE]Washing[/STRIKE] Caught up and all last load into dry
Ironing
[STRIKE]Hoover stairs[/STRIKE]
Clean windows Cheating and putting this off to another day
[STRIKE]Meal plan[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]Bake snacks[/STRIKE] Cheating and removing this
Arrange follow up appointment needed for myself

Plan more of December activity a day
Sort November goals

Taking a break with a coffee and the sofa.

charlies_tribe

Afternoon HI . Caught up with your diary this morning, I hope your feeling better now.

I know you were so looking forward to going back to work but with your health and the little one still needing a lot of your time, would it be easier to wait a while and get carers for looking after little one until she is more settled. It may help your health if you aren't so rushed off your feet x

EssexHebridean

Just clocking in to say that I hope things are back on the up Hidden. Probably sensible to put off the moving idea until the finances are a bit more on an even keel - with one exception to that advice, and that is if remaining where you are is putting you at any kind of ongoing risk...

Shift the item on that list that is for yourself (the appointment) to No, 1 priority please - you ARE a number 1 priority.

Hiddenidenity

I give up on being an adult today

And I've added to my debt

Smalls still staying out so at least they don't need to put up with my feeling sorry for myself
Will be back when normality resumes.

[Deleted User]

Big hugs lovely lady.

Take some time to you and rest and recover xxx

UncannyScot

You've built a blanket fort and no one gets in unless they know the password?

Sorry... I just couldn't resist it

You have, yet again, been a tower of strength in adversity.

You are NOT a failure lass, you are an inspiration.
I think that everyone who knows you on here has you and your little ones in their hearts and would do anything they could to help and support you through these rough times.

You will beat this luv
So chin up, get up and kick the s**t outta it