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When things hit rock bottom the only answer is to fight the way back up...

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  • helsbell
    helsbell Posts: 208 Forumite
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    Just wanted to say that Sun Addict and Toni's Friend are both right, your health is much more important than anything else at the moment. Please go and get checked out.
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  • Chrystal
    Chrystal Posts: 2,000 Forumite
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    Just popping in to send hugs and give you a much needed kick up the butt!

    If one of the children needed to go to A&E you wouldn't hesitate to spend the money for a taxi...If you need to to to A&E then for heavens sake go.
    You are no good to your kids if you're unable to look after them, and if something needs seeing to get it seen to before it gets any worse. All of this is said in the spirit of friendship, I hate to think that you need help and aren't getting it.
    One of the things I learned in later life, which you can learn whilst your still young, is that in order to look after anyone else you have to see to yourself first, in order to be fit enough to see to others. XX
    I Believe.....
    That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
    Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

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    but by getting rid of the things that make you unhappy
  • Dear HI

    I have only just caught up with your weekend. As everyone else has said, you must get a taxi to A&E if you need it. You have to put your needs first before paying off your debts in this situation.

    I hope when things are improved you will realise how you have become important on this forum.

    Positive thoughts being sent to you from all over the UK tonight.

    Keep yourself and the little ones safe
    Take care
    Pauline
    Don't get it perfect - Get it going
    Better Than Before
  • I will go if I need too. I have an appointment in the morning so trying to hold out until then. If I can't I will go before.

    I don't like wasting time for a&e but out of hours where pretty useless. So I will if I need too.
  • Toni'sfriend
    Toni'sfriend Posts: 4,056 Forumite
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    You wouldn't be wasting their time. Please take care.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,089 Forumite
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    I'm concerned that you feel so bad you might need A&E tonight when you have an appointment for tomorrow :(
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • I will x

    I've had my shower and things and I'm going to catch F1 highlights, I missed the race and I've missed all the qualifying :(

    Night all, Thank you for all the replies x
  • Doobop
    Doobop Posts: 212 Forumite
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    Not posted for a while but have been cheering you on. Sorry to hear you are hurt, hope the appointment is helpful. No need to post anything you don't want to, but you can always post about self care, how you are looking after yourself and your lists without telling us too much x
  • Toni'sfriend
    Toni'sfriend Posts: 4,056 Forumite
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    Hope you are a bit better today and the appointment sorts things out.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • Thank you x

    Well F1 was drama filled :eek: Still happy with the outcome however ;)

    Small ones are away to school. Feel bad I haven't seen them :cool: But they didn't seem at all bothered :rotfl:

    Have a huge to do list today seeing I've not really done any of it over the weekend! So must make a new list in order of needing done first! and get on with it.
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