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When things hit rock bottom the only answer is to fight the way back up...

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  • We are attempting crafty things today. It's all terribly lovely and social-media-worthy parenting, but it's very hard work! The DC want to do something new approximately every eight minutes. So far we have made playdough, salt dough, colouring, dot to dots and word searches. Counting down to lunchtime and naptime for the youngest...
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    Divorcing, unclear on final debt total right now, but focusing on building a financial buffer zone.
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Mine are okay until it comes to tidying up :rotfl: then they all seem to have better things to do :rotfl:

    They are painting birthday cards for a relative at the minute. Which will keep them quiet until they argue over a certain colour or brush and then paint each other or the wall :cool: :rotfl:

    The joys of small ones ;) I always say I'm sure I wouldn't of got away with it when I was a child, but we where pretty much left to our own devices 20 hours a day so maybe I would :rotfl:
  • Toni'sfriend
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    I love the idea of children making cards and presents. It says that so much thought has gone into it. Last year my OH was going through a really bad time and the two little ones (aged 2 and 4) next door made him a birthday card (with help from Mum). You have no idea the boost that it gave to him. I would encourage them to do it as long as they are willing to do so (so long as you don't mind the mess).
    Hope you're having a good day.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
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  • Toni'sfriend
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    Goodness, Hidden. So you have. What an inspiration!
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • Spotted you! Well done lovely :D x
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    I don't know what that means :o
  • Toni'sfriend
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    Your diary is the MSE diary of the week on Martin's weekly email.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    I just went to nosey.

    Wow I never expected that! :D

    I guess I should make cake to share around us all that read my rambling :rotfl:
  • Toni'sfriend
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    Well done. You're obviously not just rambling as so many people are reading and taking inspiration from what you're doing. I know I am,
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
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