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  • UncannyScot
    UncannyScot Posts: 2,070 Forumite
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    Not in a good place. Broken
    Sorry
    be back when i better
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  • Toni'sfriend
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    Thinking about you.
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  • parsniphead
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    Take care UncannyScot. We are all here for you. X
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  • doingitanyway
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    Hugs to you (((())))
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  • UncannyScot
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    Sorry folks

    Broke up with lass.
    Her decision, not mine. Just trying to keep myself together.

    My best mate has been round and has just left so I feel a little better having had chance to talk things over with him.
    He was able to help me see that it might feel like it an god knows we all been there but it isn't the end of the world...

    She ended it because, she said that she wanted to let me go, she knows that she might never be right again and she doesn't want to hold me back from having a better life with someone more stable than her... that broke me...

    My best mate said that she has let you go mate, if you had finished with her you would have felt like a total A for doing it to her, she knew that and she didn't want you to have to deal with that so she took it on her for you. Do her right and let go... we all know you'll be right mate. Nobody's going to let you fall here... you're getting yourself sorted... we are all going to make sure you're ok.

    So, I am very thankful for my best mate, my brither fae anither mither.
    Thankful too for you folks on here you have been so very good to me.

    I said when I started this that I would be covering all the highs and lows.... jeezo though...

    Will be getting dragged out later by my mate to get some "support n therapy" he says... beers n a blether, he means, with the rest of our wee crew...
    will be hard but i'll be right and I know she will be too
    thanks for reading folks
    :A
    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
  • Sorry re the break up fella there bloody hard x Keep posting on here it will be the last thing you probably want to do but trust me it helps.

    It kept me going when i split with my ex in November
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  • Sun_Addict
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    So sorry to read your news :( We'll get you through it - ((big hugs)) Hope you have a few beers and a blether tonight.
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Toni'sfriend
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    I am so very sorry to hear that but you have a really good friend there to help you through. Take care and keep on going.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • louby40
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    Just caught up with your diary! I've been through a few break ups in my time and it's tough but you sound like you've got some good friends.

    Chin up!

    Louby
  • UncannyScot
    UncannyScot Posts: 2,070 Forumite
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    Hi folks...

    Had a good night of "support n therapy" with my friends...
    Going to tackle my weekly chores and then try and get a few surveys done.

    Thanks for kind words and support, really appreciated.
    Will be back soon, when I've done the chores and settling with a cuppa.

    There may be some baking getting done...
    :A
    BUGGRITMILLENIUMHANDANDSHRIMP I TOLD EM! - Foul Ole Ron
    It is important that we know where we come from, because if you do not know where you come from, then you do not know where you are, and if you don't know where you are, then you don't know where you are going. If you don't know where you're going, you're probably going wrong.
    R.I.P. T.P.
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