feel so stupid

lovinituk

jobbingmusician wrote: »

I suggest you go away and read up a little about autism. Not understanding how others think is THE primary feature of the condition. What you have just said is like saying that someone with one leg can't chat to you as you walk to school together.

And that's exactly why he shouldn't even be on here unsupervised (if it is indeed not a wind up).

He has been extremely abusive to many users on here, most of which you may not have seen because the thread was deleted.

Its not healthy for him or other users for him to be on here where he can't get the help he probably/possibly needs.

Bravepants

lovinituk wrote: »

And that's exactly why he shouldn't even be on here unsupervised (if it is indeed not a wind up).

He has been extremely abusive to many users on here, most of which you may not have seen because the thread was deleted.

Its not healthy for him or other users for him to be on here where he can't get the help he probably/possibly needs.

Well said! I think the point of all of this is that, in general, this is not the platform for vulnerable people to cry for help!

It's an interesting philosophical point isn't it?


As human beings we (mostly) all feel empathy for others. We want to try to help; it is basic human instinct built in through evolution. We are intelligent beings; the most intelligent animals on the planet (despite anomalies like terrorism!). We have the capacity to do good and that's what most people want to do. But we have to recognise the limits of our abilities to help. In my opinion this is the theme of this thread, and if we have learned from it then that can only be a good thing.

sam_m

Look i was proud that i made the bed ok, i know its not a huge thing but i can't do anything about the past.

Anyway on today of all days please can you stop arguing, i am very sorry that i was rude to people, very sorry i swore at people. Today though with the awful events in Manchester maybe its made me realise that i am actually very lucky in some ways, yes i might not have a gf, I might not have a job or much money but at least i live in a warm home.

sam_m

I am so so sorry that i was rude, and nasty. Today has realized how lucky i am. Who cares if i don;t have a gf, who cares if i don't have a job, who cares that i don't have money.

At least i am with my family who i love so much

ScorpiondeRooftrouser

What you are doing now is just angling for praise from well-meaning people to make yourself feel better. This is not the place for it. Stop posting here and consult a professional.

sam_m

Actually that is not what I'm trying to do. I have realized that my problems are nothing compared to the people that are suffering and I'm very lucky in some ways

lovinituk

The end!!!

sam_m

I have just applied for another job at B&M bargains, I probably won't get it but again its a new job opportunity that has come up

[Deleted User]

sam_m wrote: »

I probably won't get it

That's the spirit!

comeandgo

Sorry, I have not read all the 21 pages but why are you waiting for a job to be advertised? Why not approach all the businesses in the area, introduce yourself and ask if there are any jobs available, they will usually say not at the moment, then you ask if you can leave your CV with them and would they consider you when any come up. In my area there are so many jobs coming up with it being the start of holiday season, the jobs are just advertised in the shop/cafe windows.
Any hotels you could try? I think you said you could not cook ,but you could wash pots and pans.