We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING: Hello Forumites! In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non-MoneySaving matters are not permitted per the Forum rules. While we understand that mentioning house prices may sometimes be relevant to a user's specific MoneySaving situation, we ask that you please avoid veering into broad, general debates about the market, the economy and politics, as these can unfortunately lead to abusive or hateful behaviour. Threads that are found to have derailed into wider discussions may be removed. Users who repeatedly disregard this may have their Forum account banned. Please also avoid posting personally identifiable information, including links to your own online property listing which may reveal your address. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Council house while selling.

124

Comments

  • Elson5 wrote: »
    The house is a terraced house, so no garage to play with. Downstairs we just have a lounge and kitchen no dining room.
    It has 3 floors, so we also have no loft to play with.
    Currently the kids are in the top room, our only option is to swap bedrooms and make 2 "areas" out of the other room.
    The house was perfect when I first brought it as a single person with no kids 10 years ago lol.
    How things change.

    the dimensions of this house are confusing me... not being negative, just being curious. does that mean you have the kitchen and living room on ground floor, bedroom and bathroom on first floor, and second bedroom on second floor? is it a very narrow house? just wondering!

    so you have an option. swap the bedrooms and partition the larger bedroom into two.

    if you bought the house that long ago, surely what you have paid off on the mortgage should muster up a decent equity deposit for a larger house? even if that is in a couple of years when you've made serious inroads on your debt to be able to get a favourable mortgage.

    have you seriously looked into renting? it may well be that your husband could guarantee the rent on his wages. especially if you can pay X amount of months up front due to the house sale.
    CCCC #33: £42/£240
    DFW: £4355/£4405
  • What if you get a "permission to let" your current home and move to rented property. I am sure you can find landlord that can accept bad credit rating :-) Good luck
  • suzeesu2000
    suzeesu2000 Posts: 1,109 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    What is the local rental market like? Would it be possible for you to rent your current home out, which might cover any mortgage, while your rented privately in the meantime?
    Saving 1 animal wont change the world - but it will change the world for that 1 animal

    25 for 2025
    2025 Frugal Living Challenge
    2025 DECLUTTERING CAMPAIGN MrsSD
    Let Thrift shopping thrive in 25!
    Make Do, Mend & Minimise in 2025 (and 2024)
  • mrginge
    mrginge Posts: 4,843 Forumite
    Elson5 wrote: »
    Oh my goodness....... not asking for others to bail us out!!
    Merely asking what people would do in our situation, after ideas not negativity.
    And if it was that simple to just go out and get a better paid job then we would have done that already and problem would be solved..... I'm sure we would all do it if it was so easy.
    At least we both have a job! :T

    I was suggesting an approach that was more to do with what you could do for yourself rather than what the council could do.

    I didn't suggest it was easy. And nor should it be.

    Not sure how such an approach can be described as negativity but hey ho.
  • bouicca21
    bouicca21 Posts: 6,719 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Moving into rented with 3 children is madness. It's not as if there is any kind of crisis, you just need to work with what you've got - and appreciate your luck in have three presumably gorgeous little ones and a roof over your head.

    And in the meantime get your credit rating sorted.
  • Rosemary7391
    Rosemary7391 Posts: 2,879 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    If you wanted to move into rented I think it'd be usual to put the house up for sale, wait until you got an offer, then start looking for rented property. It's much quicker to organise a rental than to sell a house. I think a lot of letting agencies want you to earn 30x the monthly rent or thereabouts? But individual LLs might be less fussy so long as you can afford it obviously. As you've a few years before it'll be a problem, I'd use that time to get your credit rating as sorted as you can, pay off any non mortgage debts and save like mad. Then you have a few options. The debt free wannabe board is a good place to start with reducing outgoings and getting debts paid off in the most efficient manner :)
  • JP1978
    JP1978 Posts: 527 Forumite
    In some circumstances, its not so much the gender difference, its the age gap. I shared a bedroom with my sister who is 10 years my senior. She went to bed later than me and at that age difference, with puberty etc, wanted her privacy - and rightly so. Yours at 4 months, 4 (estimated) and 7 are not such an age gap to be a problem for a few years yet.

    Rather than wasting money now - make a long term plan - aim for a 3 bed home with one of the proposed kids bedrooms to be big enough for 2 (those of the same sex).

    I used to have neighbours in a small two bed starter home, they had twin daughters. The parents slept in the small bedroom - it housed a queen bed with NO space either side and no furniture, so they could allow the daughters to have the larger bedroom. Sacrifices we have to make sometimes.
  • Elson5 wrote: »
    Merely asking what people would do in our situation, after ideas not negativity.

    You wrote that at the moment you can't buy or rent a larger house... So that leaves you with the third option: You stay where you are for the time being.

    Yes it will be a bit crowded but what can you do? This wasn't forced upon you.
  • Elson5
    Elson5 Posts: 11 Forumite
    Fourth Anniversary
    Lol.. yes that's how the house is, 2 rooms downstairs, bathroom and bedroom on 2nd floor then bedroom on top floor. It goes up rather than out. Yes I'm thinking room dividers and a bedroom swap around might be the best idea.
  • If you have only got a bedroom on the entire top floor then it must be big enough to partition
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.5K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.2K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.1K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.7K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.4K Life & Family
  • 258.8K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.