What puts you off?

Primrose

Smoking would be an utter deal breaker for me. How could I live with somebody who was prepared to physically endanger my life for years into the future by inflicting their passive smoking on me?

Gavin83

annie_d wrote: »

I am surprised at the phone thing…the other things not so much so.

I'm not really surprised at any of the reasons on here. However I do think some are completely unnecessary and some I don't understand at all but it is one area of life where we are free to be as prejudice as we wish, no matter how irrational!

System

Gavin83 wrote: »

I'm not really surprised at any of the reasons on here. However I do think some are completely unnecessary and some I don't understand at all but it is one area of life where we are free to be as prejudice as we wish, no matter how irrational!

horses for courses an' all that!

consumers_revenge

Crying names out during sex other than mine :-/

catkins

Smoking is a big no for me. People that smoke smell of cigarettes and the smell makes me feel sick.

Other things that would put me off someone would be if they were bigoted when it came to things like colour, religion, if someone was gay. Also people with no sense of humour annoy me

Lunar_Eclipse

Physical turn offs - general poor hygiene (greasy hair, bad breath), facial hair, scruffy shoes.

Character turn offs - overly flirtatious with others, financially tight, lazy and inactive.

Robisere

I grew up as the youngest brother of 3, in a pit village. I don't know how it happened, or when I made the decision, but from an early age I wanted to treat girls like a gentleman should. I was thought of as "soft" and had to fight against that, which carried on into the Army. but the one sort of girl I was absolutely turned-off by, was the one who laughed at me for opening doors and treating her as well as I could.

I saw her years later, overweight, smoking as she walked along (another turn-off!) pushing a buggy with one child, two more hanging with her, screaming at one of them. I crossed the street and shuddered.

I have been married to a real lady for many, many years now, but I had to meet a lot of female frogs before I met my Princess.

gonzo127

probably get flamed, but among lots of other things, my marriage finished because of a seriously incompatible sex drive, with her feeling 1-2 times a year was enough, and me not being able to carry on living with that little intimacy

Witless

Lunar_Eclipse wrote: »

Physical turn offs - general poor hygiene (greasy hair, bad breath), facial hair, scruffy shoes.

Character turn offs - overly flirtatious with others, financially tight, lazy and inactive.

True. Facial hair on a woman is a big turn off for me.

hazyjo

gonzo127 wrote: »

probably get flamed, but among lots of other things, my marriage finished because of a seriously incompatible sex drive, with her feeling 1-2 times a year was enough, and me not being able to carry on living with that little intimacy

It was one of the reasons I split with my husband too (he was happy with never or twice a year when I'd feel the need to bring it up again), don't worry, no flaming from me!


Jx