What puts you off?

Brightonsbest_2

Lies, deceptions, financial status, social status, works status, family status, criminal record, qualifications and details re their family, STD and other sexual history inc pregnancies.

Primrose

Smoking. Being content to spend a life in rented property rather than committing to a mortgage and owning one's own home. Being insecure and possessive to the point where I felt smothered.

kingfisherblue

Cheating on me - after sixteen years of marriage and three kids, I became a single parent and although it has been hard, I don't regret it.

Dird

thorsoak wrote: »

...and responses such as #3 and #6 would have me away from a first date before you could say ****

#3 maybe, #6 I wouldn't expect on a first date unless she was a skank

hazyjo

Most of the above - but I was really put off one bloke cos he had little girlie hands. I'd hold his hand and cringe. I am VERY good at looking for things to end relationships. I get so fed up of people. Thankfully don't feel that with my BF now!

Jx

marisco_2

Discovering a few weeks in that they were far removed from the person they had portrayed themselves to be. A liar always outs themselves in the end. So much to trip up over.

marisco_2

NeilCr wrote: »

Looking at my phone behind my back

Yep totally. Who needs the drama of dealing with a neurotic with trust issues!

annie_d

I am surprised at the phone thing…the other things not so much so.

guccigoo

Boredom, being tight with money, moaning

onomatopoeia99

NeilCr wrote: »

Looking at my phone behind my back

That would do it for me as well, not that I'm in a relationship.