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Do You Trust Your Other Half?
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Brightonsbest wrote: »Flash News:
If you want to stay ahead of your cheating, deceiving OH, check out their armoury
Here:
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/cheaters-infidelity-mobile-apps-unfaithful-relationships-split-love-dating-smartphone-a7521556.html
Indeed one has to keep at least one step ahead of the suspect.
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Can you not see the wierdness/creepiness of this consistent posting of media sources about cheating??0 -
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Brightonsbest wrote: »Flash News:
If you want to stay ahead of your cheating, deceiving OH, check out their armoury
Here:
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/cheaters-infidelity-mobile-apps-unfaithful-relationships-split-love-dating-smartphone-a7521556.html
Indeed one has to keep at least one step ahead of the suspect.
:T:T:T:T
So, how many of those apps have you found on your wife's phone?0 -
Brightonsbest wrote: »I would not go as far as saying, r "trustworthy media source" - The Sun is bought by millions of people where the majority are hard working decent and educated people. Is this why you said what you said?Brightonsbest wrote: »Flash News:
If you want to stay ahead of your cheating, deceiving OH, check out their armoury
Here:
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/cheaters-infidelity-mobile-apps-unfaithful-relationships-split-love-dating-smartphone-a7521556.html
Indeed one has to keep at least one step ahead of the suspect.
Maybe your wife is using some (or even all) of these apps to fool you.0 -
I trust my OH implicitly. I don't get this business of having secrets, keeping phones hidden etc my OH knows he can look at my phone anytime and vice versa. In fact we regularly use each others phones or computer as a matter of convenience...neither of us would ever consider that a problem!:cool:"More people would learn from their mistakes if they weren't so busy denying them." - Harold J. Smith:cool:0
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ladymarmalade wrote: »I trust my OH implicitly. I don't get this business of having secrets, keeping phones hidden etc my OH knows he can look at my phone anytime and vice versa. In fact we regularly use each others phones or computer as a matter of convenience...neither of us would ever consider that a problem!
Many thanks Lady M
My question is aimed not just at you but everyone in your situation. Sharing the computer, mobiles, looking at them, you have a great partnership. However, are people aware that more and more deceivers have a sceret phone?
Best to be open minded and alert and as trust is built over time, less likleyhood of cheating, but this comes with the caveate of never say never, even ofter 40 plus years of partnenrship.
FYI, I am trusing my OH more and more and have less doubts as time goes on
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Brightonsbest wrote: »Many thanks Lady M
My question is aimed not just at you but everyone in your situation. Sharing the computer, mobiles, looking at them, you have a great partnership. However, are people aware that more and more deceivers have a sceret phone?
Best to be open minded and alert and as trust is built over time, less likleyhood of cheating, but this comes with the caveate of never say never, even ofter 40 plus years of partnenrship.
FYI, I am trusing my OH more and more and have less doubts as time goes on
ATB
Well I guess you could never know for sure...if someone wants to keep a secret from you then they will do their best to keep it that way. However, as you have alluded to already I think most people know or have suspicions in such circumstances.:cool:"More people would learn from their mistakes if they weren't so busy denying them." - Harold J. Smith:cool:0 -
Less doubts as time goes on? You've been married decades according to you.0
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ladymarmalade wrote: »Well I guess you could never know for sure...if someone wants to keep a secret from you then they will do their best to keep it that way. However, as you have alluded to already I think most people know or have suspicions in such circumstances.
Indeed.
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