Weddings bring out the worst in people

GlasweJen

pebbles88 wrote: »

Aw Glaswejen,

I feel for you, would your oh say to her to butt out as this is starting to upset you so much?

It's obvious how much you love him, but if she continues the way she is, is there a chance you wouldn't go through with the wedding?


Or that she is going to ruin not just yours, but her sons wedding too?

She's already in the process of ruining his wedding. He's not sleeping properly and his anxiety levels are through the roof. He's said he regrets not going abroad and that nothing is going to make her happy. He keeps saying that he can't wait for the wedding to be over.

Menu tasting at the end of the week. She's still not talking to me so should be fun

pebbles88

GlasweJen wrote: »

She's already in the process of ruining his wedding. He's not sleeping properly and his anxiety levels are through the roof. He's said he regrets not going abroad and that nothing is going to make her happy. He keeps saying that he can't wait for the wedding to be over.

Menu tasting at the end of the week. She's still not talking to me so should be fun

Has he told her that? You'd hope that would bring her to her senses! X

GlasweJen

I don't know, he said he told her that she's upsetting me but it's had little to no effect on the madness that's happening.

She's saw a lot of him recently (because she snaps her fingers and he runs) and anyone who knows him would know he looks stressed.

Maybe telling her she's unreasonable and she's hurting him would help? I think if she heard it from me it wouldn't be believed and would be used as ammo down the line if she ever wanted to start an argument between us.

pebbles88

GlasweJen wrote: »

I don't know, he said he told her that she's upsetting me but it's had little to no effect on the madness that's happening.

She's saw a lot of him recently (because she snaps her fingers and he runs) and anyone who knows him would know he looks stressed.

Maybe telling her she's unreasonable and she's hurting him would help? I think if she heard it from me it wouldn't be believed and would be used as ammo down the line if she ever wanted to start an argument between us.

I don't know whether he'd be up to telling her. But it's heartbreaking that both of you feel this way in what should be a lovely time.

At this point, I don't think either of you have anything to lose by telling her, but I don't know whether she'd then not pay her contribution to the wedding & the fallout that would cause.

It's not 'her' wedding, and she's upsetting everyone by the sounds of it. Xxx

When_the_going_gets_tough

Your wedding belongs to you and your partner. No one else. At all. Anyone who contributes does so out of love and the choices remain yours. The wedding belongs to you both. Please dont be brow beaten by anyone. Have a lovely day. Its YOUR day