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2017 - No Clutter To Be Seen

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  • KitKatMum2
    KitKatMum2 Posts: 120 Forumite
    1074.-1078. Underwear
    1079. Breast pump
    1080.-1081 Wicker baskets
    1082. Make up
    1083.-1085 Baby blankets
    1086.-1089 Baby clothes
    1090-1092. tops
    1093.-1098 toiletries

    My husband also threw out a T-shirt, which I was glad about because I hated it!!

    Welcome Noelphobic, I know how you feel, I feel completely overwhelmed by stuff all the time, I think that you just have to not be too hard on yourself an accept it may be a slow process. In regards to the sanitary products are there any women's charities near you that may take them? Or even a food bank or something if the boxes are still sealed? x
  • somerandom
    somerandom Posts: 920 Forumite
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    somerandom wrote: »
    802. Purse
    803. DS' old trainers

    804. socks
    805. necklace - given to friend

    took a big bag of previously listed stuff to charity shop :)

    "upgrading" of DS' room is nearly there. Just need to get him some blinds, a new duvet cover and give the walls a lick of paint and it'll be finished. :)

    Welcome @noelphobic
    Shifting my energy for 2020 :heart::heart::heart:
  • Saver-upper
    Saver-upper Posts: 2,348 Forumite
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    Hey,welcome to the thread,Noelphobic.Don't give up!!I have been decluttering my house on and off,for years(Hoarding partner,busy 4-child family).It is only now I am starting to feel happy with how it looks (when the rest of the family is out and I have cleaned all day :rotfl:).

    As eandjsmum says,start small.Tell yourself that today you are going to (say) clear a counter in the kitchen.When you clear it,find a proper place to put everything you are going to keep.eg,look through the paperwork.If it is old,not needed,throw it out.If you need to keep it,store it,either in a file,pretty box,loft.....Then move onto the next item that has gravitated to the counter and doesn't belong-toys,school bags,keys and wallets.Again,find these items a permanent home.

    I think one of the reasons it took me this long to declutter my not-overly-huge house,is that I spent so long "moving the problem around." So,I would find,eg, a box of papers to sort.I would file some,recycle some,shred others.Then I would get to the papers I wouldn't know what to do with.Shuffle them around a bit,then put them in a different pile to look at later.Come back to them months later,then the cycle begins again :eek:.So now I try to stick to a new rule-only handle an item once (maybe twice,if I am naughty :o).Pick it up,decide immediatley what you are going to do with it,before moving onto othe next item.

    With regards to toiletries,are they in good enough condition (in date,unopened,etc) to donate.Either to a shelter,even a charity shop,who will resell,or you could even just pop them into the food-bank boxes that are often in the front of supermarkets.


    Today I sorted out the third and last box from 15yo's room :j.I have set aside alot to go to charity (hopefully tomorrow),but for now I will list stuff that have actually left the house

    Binned:
    1242:child's belt
    1243-1259:coloured pens
    1260-1264:kid's nail polish
    1265-1268:kid's lip gloss
    1269:loom-band creation("mobile phone holder") younger daughter had made for 15yo
    1270:painted clay thingy

    Out for recycling:
    1271:pen container
    1272:box a travel cup came in (had been kept for the last 18 months!)
    1273:old Lush catalogue
    1274:Patterns to Colour book
    1275:Garden Fairy doodle book
    1276:cycling around my city brochure
    1277:Bikeability handbook
    1278-1279:2 strips of pots that kid's paint comes in
    1280:rock returned to our garden :eek:
    1281:bits of kipple not really belonging to anything
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  • noelphobic
    noelphobic Posts: 2,297 Forumite
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    KitKatMum2 wrote: »
    1074.-1078. Underwear
    1079. Breast pump
    1080.-1081 Wicker baskets
    1082. Make up
    1083.-1085 Baby blankets
    1086.-1089 Baby clothes
    1090-1092. tops
    1093.-1098 toiletries

    My husband also threw out a T-shirt, which I was glad about because I hated it!!

    Welcome Noelphobic, I know how you feel, I feel completely overwhelmed by stuff all the time, I think that you just have to not be too hard on yourself an accept it may be a slow process. In regards to the sanitary products are there any women's charities near you that may take them? Or even a food bank or something if the boxes are still sealed? x

    I'm not sure I the boxes are sealed but the items inside are individually wrapped. There is a food bank nearby - I used to volunteer there.

    I suppose I could always leave them in a public toilet somewhere.

    It's just occurred to me that I'm meeting my friend for lunch today. She has a daughter in her twenties and nieces, so she would possibly take them.
    3 stone down, 3 more to go
  • noelphobic
    noelphobic Posts: 2,297 Forumite
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    1) box of tampons
    2) pack of sanitary towels

    My friend didn't want them but I put them in the food bank collection point at Tesco.

    3) Hessian lunch bag
    4) travel mug
    5-6) two umbrellas
    7) plastic cutlery set
    8-9) two hand.brushes
    10-11) two candles
    12-23) twelve books
    24) watch
    25) bar of soap (unused)
    26) calendar
    27-32) six cat toys
    33) diffuser
    34) four plasters

    All the above to charity shop

    35) tube of prescription ointment, out of date and never used, went in bin
    36) tube of intensive hair conditioner - counting this as a declutter item as I won't be replacing it.

    I have a carrier bag of clothes ready to go to a charity shop and will make a start on another box of odds and ends.
    3 stone down, 3 more to go
  • noelphobic
    noelphobic Posts: 2,297 Forumite
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    37) part used bottle of Charles Worthington Shine Glaze - emptied contents and put bottle in recycling.
    3 stone down, 3 more to go
  • whiteguineapig
    whiteguineapig Posts: 1,365 Forumite
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    super start noelphobic!
  • noelphobic
    noelphobic Posts: 2,297 Forumite
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    super start noelphobic!


    I've been looking back at my old posts. I 'joined' this thread on 2nd January but I think that was my only post until yesterday!

    It's quite likely that I have already got rid of 2017 plus items this year - the snag is that I've probably also acquired that many and more besides.:eek:
    3 stone down, 3 more to go
  • noelphobic
    noelphobic Posts: 2,297 Forumite
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    38) plasters
    39) paint brush
    40) paint roller

    All in bin

    41) empty hoover box

    in recycling
    3 stone down, 3 more to go
  • purplevamp
    purplevamp Posts: 10,668 Forumite
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    edited 29 July 2017 at 1:03AM
    purplevamp wrote: »
    93) T-shirt (ebay)
    94) Brooch (ebay)
    95) Video (amazon)
    96) Wardrobe (ebay)
    97) Vacuum attachment (ebay)
    98) Camera case (back to my Mum)
    99) Hand cream which was too flowery for me (gave to my Mum)
    100) Book (ebay)
    101-104) Videos (ebay)
    105) Book (amazon)
    106-107) Posters (niece)
    108) Girls tights (niece)
    109) Puzzle (niece)
    110) Comic (niece)
    111) Sticker sheet (niece)

    Cannot believe it's been nearly 3 months since I last posted :eek: :o. But I have got rid of a few more things:-

    112) Easter Egg box!!
    113) Academic calendar
    114-117) 4 dead pens
    118) T-shirt (ebay)
    119) OOD voucher
    120) Various receipts (2015 :rotfl:)
    121-124) 4 videos (ebay)
    125) Magazine (ebay)
    126) DVD (Amazon)
    127-128) 2 videos (ebay)
    129) Video (Amazon)
    130) Jumper (ebay)
    131) Book (Amazon)
    Mortgage: Was: £154,495 Oct 2039 Now: £82,869.54 May 2037
    Swagbucks ~ £130 (2024 ~ £395)
    Surveys ~ £139.39 (2024 ~ £280.14)
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