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dunno why she said this

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  • Gavin83
    Gavin83 Posts: 8,757 Forumite
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    Be honest. Was she out of your league?
  • JReacher1
    JReacher1 Posts: 4,664 Forumite
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    The first date with a girl you met on tinder. I think the flowers were overkill. For one thing she would have to carry them round with her all night. It's a bit of a pain.
  • ThumbRemote
    ThumbRemote Posts: 4,757 Forumite
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    She writes 'u' instead of 'you'.

    Ur better off without her.
  • ? OP why are you resurrecting this thread now? I hope you have met someone else since then.
    "The problem with Internet quotes is that you can't always depend on their accuracy" - Abraham Lincoln, 1864
  • OP, if it's taken you since November to get 3 dates it wasn't going anywhere.

    Texting every day is a big mistake. You'll get some soft sod on her telling you the opposite though.

    You've wasted close to four months of your life ( and money )

    Next time act like a man. Stop the needy pathetic routine.

    ( The fact that you're on here asking advice says a lot )
  • bugslet
    bugslet Posts: 6,874 Forumite
    ? OP why are you resurrecting this thread now? I hope you have met someone else since then.

    That ^^

    BTW, I really dislike flower, so not all of us appreciate them ( though I'd make appreciative noises out of courtesy).
  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite

    Next time act like a man.

    Sexism won't solve this.
  • Loz01
    Loz01 Posts: 1,848 Forumite
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    What more could she do?? She sent a nice message saying no hard feelings and she hopes you find someone etc. Sometimes you have fun with people but you just don't fancy them or just can't imagine being in a relationship with them... thats life..
  • Fireflyaway
    Fireflyaway Posts: 2,766 Forumite
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    That's the sort of email / text I would send if I didn't fancy the person but thought they were nice and didn't want to upset them.
  • GTR_King
    GTR_King Posts: 2,074 Forumite
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    thanks for the advice guys...

    I don't talk to her anymore and I have moved on
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