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dunno why she said this
GTR_King
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Went on 2 lovely dates with a girl from tinder...
1st date drinks (I paid & bought her flowers she loved them)
2nd date meal (I paid for it)
3rd date was meant to be Thursday
Had loads in common 12/13 things
First spoke last week of November etc
Been speaking each day since then but last 3-4 days the she has been taking ages to reply...
She then texted me today saying this...
Hi I have something to tell u, do not want to lead u on any further, we have had two lovely dates but i just see as a friend, do not want u to think it can be anything more, I do not want to upset because u are lovely and nice, hopefully u can find someone who is compatible with u, we can meet up if u want as friends because u are a nice guy, sorry if I have upset u not my intention at all, did not want to upset u at Xmas x
I tried my best to be my self and keep her interested
She just probably didn't fancy me o well
1st date drinks (I paid & bought her flowers she loved them)
2nd date meal (I paid for it)
3rd date was meant to be Thursday
Had loads in common 12/13 things
First spoke last week of November etc
Been speaking each day since then but last 3-4 days the she has been taking ages to reply...
She then texted me today saying this...
Hi I have something to tell u, do not want to lead u on any further, we have had two lovely dates but i just see as a friend, do not want u to think it can be anything more, I do not want to upset because u are lovely and nice, hopefully u can find someone who is compatible with u, we can meet up if u want as friends because u are a nice guy, sorry if I have upset u not my intention at all, did not want to upset u at Xmas x
I tried my best to be my self and keep her interested
She just probably didn't fancy me o well
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Just didn't work out I'm afraid.
At least shes been honest with you. Also take confidence in the fact she must have thought you were a nice enough person that she would let you know.
Some people just wouldn't bother.0 -
You can get on really well but without chemistry it won't go anywhere , but that is why people date as the theoretical perfect match is nothing if that spark doesn't ignite. Don't take it personally.I Would Rather Climb A Mountain Than Crawl Into A Hole
MSE Florida wedding .....no problem0 -
yeah these things happen o well0
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She's just not into you......................................Proud to have lost over 3 stone (45 pounds,) in the past year! :j Now a size 14!
You're not singing anymore........ You're not singing any-more!
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She said it because she didn't see it going any further? Whats to decipher?0
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ME 26
HER 25
she has never had a boyfriend...
Has Anxiety/Depression and is really scared of men...
but I will move on.0 -
o well her loss at the end of the day0
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Can't see the friendship lasting long either.0
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