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Accommodation v Disposable income dilemma

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Would you be more impressed with someone with a big, detached, modern, 3 bedroom house with an average, normal car and not a lot of disposable income to do want they want with (under £50,000) or someone with a new build, 2 bedroom, very modern, slightly smallish apartment with a nice car and a lot of disposable income to do what they want with (£100,000/£200,000)?

More impressed by? 106 votes

More impressed by nice detached house and average other things
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More impressed by average apartment and nice other things
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Equally impressed by both
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Equally impressed by neither
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  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    Neither, its not what stuff people have that impresses me (or doesn't) about them.

    Odd question...
  • Shania tells it the best - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mqFLXayD6e8

    Not to mention, 'house size' isn't exactly a good measure of wealth. My parent's house is twice the size of mine and in far better condition. Mine is worth 40% more than theirs
  • marksoton
    marksoton Posts: 17,516 Forumite
    PlanLife wrote: »
    Would you be more impressed with someone with a big, detached, modern, 3 bedroom house with an average, normal car and not a lot of disposable income to do want they want with (under £50,000) or someone with a new build, 2 bedroom, very modern, slightly smallish apartment with a nice car and a lot of disposable income to do what they want with (£100,000/£200,000)?

    What?! Just what!?

    Why would either impress me.

    It's like when your'e driving down the motorway and there's a high end new plated car. Most are on finance or leased. Hardly something to crow about.
  • 1, what a strange question - stuff isn't impressive. 2, I'm really baffled by your definition of "not a lot" of disposable income - plenty folk would be very happy with £50k all in, never mind disposable! Why modern places also? Very strange...
  • More impressed by average apartment and nice other things
    Can you only reply if you have an opinion on which one you think is more impressive. If no one gives an opinion then I'll just carry on saving for whichever one I think people will be more impressed with from my future experiences when the time comes to buy one.

    If you can't see that there is a glass ceiling that people are judged on depending on their material possessions (home, vehicle) and disposable income then you've either been working or middle class for too long to see that there are many people societaly above or below you who have looked into social mobility and would like to improve their life.
  • beecher2
    beecher2 Posts: 3,677 Forumite
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    edited 14 December 2016 at 8:41PM
    Equally impressed by neither
    Weird thread. Why would anyone be impressed or otherwise by either option?

    Have to laugh at your follow up post. People who judge you on such nonsense are not people I'd want to know. There's more to improving your life than taking on debt and trying to keep up with the neighbours.
  • missbiggles1
    missbiggles1 Posts: 17,481 Forumite
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    I'm unimpressed.
  • rosyw
    rosyw Posts: 519 Forumite
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    What a ridiculous question! I'm seriously UNIMPRESSED by it!

    I WOULD be impressed however by someone who realised what a ridiculous question that is and realised that life is NOT about impressing people :cool:
  • G_M
    G_M Posts: 51,977 Forumite
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    It's not the size of the house that matters - it's how you use it.
  • lincroft1710
    lincroft1710 Posts: 18,871 Forumite
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    Equally impressed by neither
    PlanLife wrote: »
    Can you only reply if you have an opinion on which one you think is more impressive.

    Neither are impressive
    If you are querying your Council Tax band would you please state whether you are in England, Scotland or Wales
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