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What marital status am I?

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  • That 'old chestnut' gets trotted out every time.

    Getting married is not expensive - people's choices increase the cost.

    Of course, it depends on your priorities in life... I don't get why so many people have children before marriage and then blame the delay on costs. What is more expensive: a wedding or a child?


    Why should anyone have to get married if they don't want to?

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  • chelseablue
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    Why should anyone have to get married if they don't want to?

    HBS x

    Good point


    My parents have been together over 30 years, have 2 children, own a house together


    They aren't married but are very happy together
  • POPPYOSCAR
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    Why should anyone have to get married if they don't want to?

    HBS x



    Unfortunately, sometimes for financial reasons.
  • Gloomendoom
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    Good point


    My parents have been together over 30 years, have 2 children, own a house together


    They aren't married but are very happy together

    But have they blamed the delay in getting married on the cost?
  • chelseablue
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    But have they blamed the delay in getting married on the cost?

    I don't think they ever want to get married :rotfl:
  • Archergirl
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    Married or not, I hope you have both made a will, even more important if you're not married.
    If you are not married things can get very messy if something happens.....x
  • System
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    how about 'in a relationship'?
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  • peachyprice
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    Emmylou summed it up quite well, and I think it's fairly self explanatory...

    If you're in a relationship, you're not single.

    HBS x

    Being 'in a relationship' is not a legally recognised status, being married is and come with legal benefits.
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  • ognum
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    Good point


    My parents have been together over 30 years, have 2 children, own a house together


    They aren't married but are very happy together

    This is without doubt true, but:

    When one of them dies and the financial implications occur they may (not will) just may wish they had the legal piece of paper.

    We often don't think about the implications of what we do until the worst happens.
  • jackieblack
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    edited 1 December 2016 at 8:35PM
    https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/marital_status
    Definition of marital status in English:

    marital status
    NOUN
    One's situation with regard to whether one is single, married, separated, divorced, or widowed
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