Eviction notice served

wherediditallgo

Also, when you meet with them, make sure they know that if you appear to be able to manage your affairs now, it's because you've been given a lot of help by other people, without which you wouldn't have known to get a supporting letter from the GP, to contact your MP etc. Make it clear to them that people have been very willing to help you with advice & have been very supportive, but they can't house you.

Definitely don't attend the meeting without professional representation, especially if you don't know whether another appointment will be offered. I know the staff have a job to do, but they'll have a wealth of admin to back up their case, & no matter how calm a person you are the stress of the meeting will get to you. Having a person who actually works in housing and/or knows the law & how to apply the regulations appropriately in your case there will do your confidence the world of good, plus they'll be able to stay focused on what needs to be said/argued without getting emotionally involved.

mumoftwins

Thanks rog and thank you and everyone else for being here for me.

Gillianh2

Hi Mot,

I know I-T can go with you tmwr, but I have a feeling that they may turn this around on you and question why he cant put you and the twins up. I know he hasnt the room but they may say well its somewhere!!! Just trying to cover all avenues. Have you contacted your MP to accompany you tmwr they should be able to attend and if its not convienent for the MP tomorrow rearrange it.

)))))))))))))))))))HUGS)))))))))))))))))) thinking of you and just wish I could get to Hertfordshire to be with you.

mumoftwins

Rang Shelter and they say that aren't able to attend with me tomorrow as they don't have the resources to be able to carry out individual council meetings. So have spoken to I-T (who is bringing us all a big chinese for tea) and confirmed that he will be attending with me.

rog2

mumoftwins wrote: »

Rang Shelter and they say that aren't able to attend with me tomorrow as they don't have the resources to be able to carry out individual council meetings. So have spoken to I-T (who is bringing us all a big chinese for tea) and confirmed that he will be attending with me.

I have read I-T posts and I am absolutely sure that his presence will be of great help to you.

Gforce_2

Um I don't know if it would be advisable to attend this meeting without professional support. It seems that this meeting is just a formality so they can dot the i's and cross the t's, so everything looks good for the councillor & mp.
If you do go I think you need to make sure that you write down all the points you want to make and give them a copy to go in your file. You also need to write down all the questions you want to ask about how they came to their decision and if necesssary take notes. Otherwise it's very easy to forget important points you want to make or to get sidetracked. I think you need to use this time to your advantage as it is unlikely that the decision will be reversed.

mumoftwins

I-t and I going to sit down tonight and go through all the posts on this thread and make notes, although at the moment I must admit to not being in a fit state to concentrate - can't stop crying.

rog2

mumoftwins wrote: »

I-t and I going to sit down tonight and go through all the posts on this thread and make notes, although at the moment I must admit to not being in a fit state to concentrate - can't stop crying.

I can fully understand how you must be feeling, mot - TRY and unwind a bit, with I-T, and I hope you ALL enjoy your 'Chinese'.

mumoftwins

rog2 wrote: »

I can fully understand how you must be feeling, mot - TRY and unwind a bit, with I-T, and I hope you ALL enjoy your 'Chinese'.

Having a brandy as we speak - for the shock!!!

skintscotslass

Hi luv, goodness you've been through the mill!! Best of luck tomorrow. I wont be on line until later on tomorrow night as I'm heading down to Liverpool straight from work. I'll be thinking of you and sending you positive vibes xx