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Paid off the £31,000! BUT - still scrimping!

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  • Seasidegal58
    Seasidegal58 Posts: 6,049 Forumite
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    So I have sent off my shirty email to the pension administrator. Have told them that as the statement is useless for my purpose I want a corrected statement to be emailed to me by close of play today or I will escalate a formal complaint!

    DSis called me this morning to let me know that her and OH can't make tonight's drinks. Also the other relatives aren't going! Beginning to feel that I will be there like Billy No-Mates as apart from my cousin and her OH, I won't know anyone there now! However, I've got to go as I feel guilty that (a) I didn't go to my cousin's 50th; and (b) I'm round the corner from the venue anyway!

    Have a good day everyone!
    Finally Debt Free! - July 2016 🌟
    Finished Emergency Fund- £10,000 April 2017
    🌟
    RETIRED: MAY 2021!!!!😀🎆
    My diary: “Seasidegal's Scrimpy Retirement Diary!”
  • I'd love to have heard you on the phone giving a richly deserved telling off to the rude 'kid' :rotfl:. I wouldn't want them handling my pension :eek: (if I had one).

    You will really enjoy the show I'm sure SSG and have lovely memories afterwards.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • So I have sent off my shirty email to the pension administrator. Have told them that as the statement is useless for my purpose I want a corrected statement to be emailed to me by close of play today or I will escalate a formal complaint!

    DSis called me this morning to let me know that her and OH can't make tonight's drinks. Also the other relatives aren't going! Beginning to feel that I will be there like Billy No-Mates as apart from my cousin and her OH, I won't know anyone there now! However, I've got to go as I feel guilty that (a) I didn't go to my cousin's 50th; and (b) I'm round the corner from the venue anyway!

    Have a good day everyone!

    I hope you're not the only one there tonight SSG and that you enjoy it.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Hope you have a good evening.
  • brizzledfw
    brizzledfw Posts: 7,302 Forumite
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    Have a great evening SSG and honestly glad you've gone into writing to the pension fund...flipping appalling administration and service.
    MFiT-T4 Member No. 96 - 2022 is my MF goal :D
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  • Sun_Addict
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    Hope you're having a fab time even with reduced numbers :)
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Seasidegal58
    Seasidegal58 Posts: 6,049 Forumite
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    Thank you everyone for all your lovely comments!

    I had a great time in the end at the retirement bash and my DCuz and her OH were really pleased to see me. He had hired a private room at the wine bar and had laid on a lovely buffet and loads of drink so it turned into a free night. Met quite a few of his ex-work colleagues and three of DCuz!!!8217;s best friends who were great company and we had a good laugh. When I was leaving DCuz asked me if I wanted a slice of the rather delish looking retirement cake she had bought him. I said yes please (thought bubble: I!!!8217;m trying to cut down sweets wise but a slice will be nice with coffee.....) then she reappeared with what felt like a brick wrapped in foil. I said I don!!!8217;t need all that but she insisted I take it! When I got home I actually weighed it - 850 grams!:eek: I had a bit today - the rest is sitting out in the kitchen like a time bomb........:D

    So yesterday wasn!!!8217;t as expensive as I first thought - just a fiver for my taxi home from Station because it was late.

    And, oh what a surprise - the pension people didn!!!8217;t reply to my email apart from the generic !!!8220;thank you for your email, we!!!8217;ll aim to reply within ten years etc etc!!!8221;. So I!!!8217;ll be shooting over my complaint on Monday.

    Today I received the last pension provider!!!8217;s statement and also the numerous forms from my works provider with the bumph to transfer the first one! I think it!!!8217;s going to be a long job somehow!

    Have a good evening everyone.
    Finally Debt Free! - July 2016 🌟
    Finished Emergency Fund- £10,000 April 2017
    🌟
    RETIRED: MAY 2021!!!!😀🎆
    My diary: “Seasidegal's Scrimpy Retirement Diary!”
  • yum cake - can you freeze it in bits and ration yourself?
  • Seasidegal58
    Seasidegal58 Posts: 6,049 Forumite
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    I think that’s the way forward redo. It’s sponge with buttercream and soft icing. Should be ok?
    Finally Debt Free! - July 2016 🌟
    Finished Emergency Fund- £10,000 April 2017
    🌟
    RETIRED: MAY 2021!!!!😀🎆
    My diary: “Seasidegal's Scrimpy Retirement Diary!”
  • I think cake freezing is the way forward here to avoid temptation :rotfl:. Glad you enjoyed the retirement do after all, it's always worth making yourself go to things.

    How annoying those pensions people are, I do dislike those automated emails :mad:.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
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