Project Mortgage Neutral Begins

ajmoney

juliejim wrote: »

Hi AJ

How are your feeling now your move is getting closer? Are you feeling any better about it?

Jue

We have done a lot of sorting in the house which is helping a little but only time will tell. I know it will take a lot of adapting for both of us and I need to spend time making my own social network so will see.

ajmoney

At least I remortgaged before the interest rate rise...

ajmoney

So far I haven't spent any of my own money so far this month so haven't needed to write anything down

ajmoney

Time to myself for the first time in 3 weeks and I don't know what to do. I really need to get a hobby or something for when I move back in 4 weeks!

EatingTheElephant

Well done on the remortgage, not long now until the move.

ajmoney

I am just leaving this here as a reminder for me

"fix the problem instead of managing the symptoms"

currently suffering a little from anxiety or panic, not sure which, if I'm honest I probably have been for quite a while (at least a year) and used to use exercise to help control it and escape from it. Maybe I need to look at this a different way hence the quote above!

ajmoney

I have moved a lot of my stuff home now, 2 more return trips before I am back permanently at the end of the month...and I am struggling to find space for things, especially clothes :eek: luckily I don't have much more to bring back but I think I might have to be ruthless. Depending on the weekend's plans I think I may need to do some more sorting out.

ajmoney

Today I set myself 2 goals, go for a run and make some scones and I have achieved both :j
I have sought help to deal with all the changes going on in my life and to try and help me move forward. It is a much slower process than I thought it would be and I am sure things will get worse before they get better but at least I have made the first steps.

ajmoney

Off to start expanding my own social network today by volunteering at my local parkrun.
Today's jobs, sort out my baking cupboards and go for a walk whatever the weather. I still need to sort out $ky so I will put some effort into that too.

Moneyfordreams

I find my social network has dwindled to very little... I have 2 friends I see out of work these days... and that's few and far between... I know I need to catch up with a couple of others... but then they could catch up with me too !!!8230; anyhow good luck with settling back home