Urgently seeking some advice...

Detroit

I haven't read the entire thread, so sorry if this has been mentioned already, but if you get HB in you current property, you can apply to the council for a discretionary housing payment to cover rent deposit.
This is not guaranteed, but people with disabilities are prioritized.

You could also try charities. Go back to CAB and ask them about DHPs and charitable grants.

Alice_Walker

That's good to hear, and remember they're always there and happy to help. Perhaps try to see your GP tomorrow, let them know how you're feeling?

Take care xx

easilydistracted

OP there is always a solution, follow the advice for emergency help, including finding a way to get some sleep. Then:
-Find a MIND drop in centre and go and get both TLC and practical help.
-try for a budgeting loan, be clear it is for rent in advance not deposit. I understand you can get these even if not on benefits. Ideally get a support worker or someone who is good at putting up with stressful situations to help you get one.
https://www.turn2us.org.uk/Benefit-guides/Budgeting-Loan-Advance/What-is-a-Budgeting-Loan-Advance
-There are specific charities which will provide help for people with health conditions, particularly on a regional basis. I think you can find them on Turn2Us as well.
-Don't leave the property your in an don't give up on your deposit. Maybe when the landlord realises your really not going anywhere they'll give you the deposit.
-Is there anyone you can stay with for a month? You could put the money towards a new place, its not the end of the world losing the one you find.
Thinking of you

mrsbee17

Sorry if someone has mentioned this before but have you called Shelter?

Cakeguts

Poppie68 wrote: »

Contact your local authority Adult social team they are available 24/7....Intervention from them will help you with your immediate suicidal feelings and should be able to get you on the right path for appropriate housing.
I've been were you are as have many others who use this forum...MH problems are hard to overcome when you don't have the appropriate help but getting that help is down to you.
Lots of people are in your position and it's hard to see or find a solution but the battle against it is only won when you seek the correct help. Spend the time left in your tenancy getting that help and remember vulnerable people are in a much stronger position when it comes to getting help with housing.....Now flush those tablets away and have a cup of tea, imagine your life with a positive outlook for the future.

Actually I think this needs the crisis team for the area.

Cakeguts

LovingPerson wrote: »

I had a long talk with the Samaritans. The person I spoke to there was very kind and I feel calmer. She also advised me to ask people in my life if they can lend a little, even just £10.

Hope you are feeling a little better today. You need to go to see your GP as soon as possible. The way you are feeling at the moment is making everything seem much worse than it is. You are having too many negative thoughts and so your GP needs to find a way to stop them and help you to have more positive thoughts. The thing to remember is that the negative thoughts can be stopped from happening and you will feel much more positive soon.

LovingPerson

The woman at Samaritans last night told me to write a list of friends or loved ones who might be able to lend me money to move into the new flat. I told her there was no way I would feel comfortable asking anyone for anything because I've never received any help or support before. During the call it came out that I've never felt I deserve anything good. It was very emotional and I was crying my eyes out. This morning I took her advice and explained to one of my oldest friends exactly what is going on. I was so nervous to ask him to lend me some money that I was sweating and shaking during the conversation. I asked him if he could spare £50 for a month. He told me I'm one of the kindest people he's ever known and that he would love to do whatever he can to help me. He asked me for my bank details. I just checked my bank account and he has put £150 in there. I am almost there.....

easilydistracted

How are you getting on now?

LovingPerson

managed to pawn one last thing yesterday. Only £50 short now

easilydistracted wrote: »

How are you getting on now?

Andypandyboy

Well done, nearly there now. Did you read post 72 OP? If it applies it may help. Good luck.