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Savvybuyer wrote: »Sorry to disappoint your mum, but 36 mph when the speed limit is 30 is clearly speeding. "Speeding" means travelling in excess of the speed limit and therefore this is. This is another case that is beyond rational argument on the matter and is therefore such an unreasonable opinion that is, in my view, is impossible to hold on any reasonable basis as it is so far in conflict with the facts that I rule it out as invalid. Your mum's opinion is less valid than mine because it is not based on the facts and no amount of opinion will cancel out or prevent any penalty imposed for speeding which this is regardless of and irrelevant about your mother's opinion. There is not even a possibility of an argument over a borderline case. There is a clear line that is set and 36 mph is so clearly over it and is in the blatant area covered by the concept of the word "speeding" that it is not possible rationally to say that it is not.
There is a reason for speed limits and research that shows that people are more likely to be killed if someone is travelling faster, even though I know how irksome it sometimes it is comply with them and to be going along at 30 when it seems really slow. In fact, I think most people are incapable of complying with the speed limit as no-one else ever seems to slow down for 30 mph signs on slip roads but sails through at 40 and over. This actually makes it dangerous for me to comply with the speed limit, but the danger is caused by what seems to me entire rest of the world showing no evidence that they even noticed the signs (people generally fail to notice things that I spot) let alone ever complying with them. However, it works both ways: irritatingly! People will travel at 40 when the limit is back at 60 and then be speeding once the 30 sign, that they seem oblivious to, is up - and even repeated signage does not seem to alert most people. They want to do 40, whenever they are.
As regards your mother's opinion, I suggest the following appeoach (though not really). Namely, do something that she dislikes and then reply by telling her it was not really what she thought it was. I am sure that then, all of a sudden and magically, the boot will somehow immediately move to the other foot. It always does. Thus showing how wrong she is!
Savvy i have to say if its 30, i go 30, ifs its 40 i go 40 etc;)Sealed pot challenge number 003 £350 for 2015, 2016 £400 Actual£345, £400 for 2017 Actual £500:T:T £770 for 2018 £1295 for 2019:j:j spc number 22 £1,457Stopped Smoking 22/01/15:D:D::dance::dance:- 5 st 1 1/2lb :dance::dance:0 -
We have been missing your midnight chips.

Or am I behind the times and you have a different job now, I'm not good at remembering stuff like that.
I left that job after Christmas 2015
I really miss working nights, would love to go back to it
Dont cut your nose off to spite your face;) can you not get hours reduced of go back to what you did before?
I can ask for reduced hours but they don't have to give me them.
Just got to grit my teeth and get through it, something always seems to turn up in the end
Historic Debt August 2009 = £63,600 10th March 2017 = £0 100% paid all gone!
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If you focus on what you have left behind, you won't see what lies ahead - Gusteau0 -
I'll get it over and done with now before DM gets in as he is bound to notice my chipped bowl in that pic.

We use it now to keep whoopsied herbs in. :cool:
He never misses anything:mad::rotfl:Sealed pot challenge number 003 £350 for 2015, 2016 £400 Actual£345, £400 for 2017 Actual £500:T:T £770 for 2018 £1295 for 2019:j:j spc number 22 £1,457Stopped Smoking 22/01/15:D:D::dance::dance:- 5 st 1 1/2lb :dance::dance:0 -
I left that job after Christmas 2015
I really miss working nights, would love to go back to it 
I can ask for reduced hours but they don't have to give me them.
Just got to grit my teeth and get through it, something always seems to turn up in the end
Grrrrrrrrrrrr, yes just bide your time, when you least expect it , it will happenSealed pot challenge number 003 £350 for 2015, 2016 £400 Actual£345, £400 for 2017 Actual £500:T:T £770 for 2018 £1295 for 2019:j:j spc number 22 £1,457Stopped Smoking 22/01/15:D:D::dance::dance:- 5 st 1 1/2lb :dance::dance:0 -
Same as me DS uses head and shoulders shampoo .
I will try the little bottle but it might make my hair go funny.
Wont know til I try
I like H&S as I do get a dry scalp, but don't buy it often as my stash of poos needs using up. So I will enjoy this one. I think H&S has come a long way from what it used to be like much gentler now.
Want to give DD1 some samples but not sure when the project ends, I only went up the other weekend so not sure when I will see her again.
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Glad you fine

I have sound it wasn't me I was trying to help someone else.
If I watching anything with sound on and mum rings I have to silence tv or laptop or she goes mad. Ok if I can hear her tv :mad:
I think there should be a thread for people who want to sound off about elderly parents. I once Googled 'I want to kill my Mum' and to my horror discovered sites which took that rather literally!!0 -
I left that job after Christmas 2015
I really miss working nights, would love to go back to it 
I can ask for reduced hours but they don't have to give me them.
Just got to grit my teeth and get through it, something always seems to turn up in the end
Some people suit working nights, Mr TS's aunt and uncle did for years, completely different jobs.
Is it worth asking dip, would there be anything lost if you did. Sorry to hear you are struggling through. xx0 -
Do peeps think this is still working?
http://edam.co.uk/promotion/
Date at the top says until 31/12/2017. But in the T&C's, it says 31/01/2017. :cool:0 -
Serendipitious wrote: »I had free cakes from the Co-op.
They had a big display stand of balloons and very large cupcakes promoting the new card. Unmanned, so I asked a passing SA what the cakes were all about. Got told to help myself, so I did - went and got a bag from the produce section. Choc cupcake and a vanilla one and a gingerbread man.
What new card please Seren?0 -
Hi altojack - eventually if I ever do catch up with myself this week which is doubtful I meant to PM you.
Eldest son didn't get the postings he requested, terrible mess up whereby they lost his paperwork so he had to submit again. He has ended up with just about the worst posting possible - well the base and people and work are good but the location not - fortunately the start date is movable and he may have to take other courses but it could be July.
East Anglia
Wattisham - looking at the map it seems to be about 20 mins from Stowmarket so it must be not far from you.
We are up in Cheshire and GF in Brum ...
I think he was closer when he was in Cyprus - 4 hour flight into Manchester ...
Oh dear mhoc, Wattisham isn't that bad, it's been good enough for Royalty you know.
It is out of the way :cool: very attractive and nicely secluded but always been a good base.
Maybe he can appeal and get another posting, last minute sort of thing. If that's definitely where he's going and you come down to visit him, maybe we could meet and have a coffee. You'll have to let me know xxThere's no place like home
Feeling down? Weak in body? Makes no difference to me, I think of you all when I'm sitting quietly.
Hugs and healing thoughts are always going your way.0
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