Bullied at work due to going on holiday with work colleague!

SkimmySim

How about you tell them it's none of their business and you feel harassed and if they continue to pry, harrass and intimidate you, you will take it up with your management as it is affecting your work life!

Its really no ones business who you go on holiday with or what you choose to do on your annual leave!!

xapprenticex

hold on... did you go on holiday WITHOUT your husband but with this colleague?

Does your husband know you went on holiday with this person if he didnt go with you?

emsywoo123

SkimmySim wrote: »

How about you tell them it's none of their business and you feel harassed and if they continue to pry, harrass and intimidate you, you will take it up with your management as it is affecting your work life!

Its really no ones business who you go on holiday with or what you choose to do on your annual leave!!

Meanwhile, in the real world...

emsywoo123

xapprenticex wrote: »

hold on... did you go on holiday WITHOUT your husband but with this colleague?

Does your husband know you went on holiday with this person if he didnt go with you?

I suspect you sound like the OPs colleagues :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

elsien

xapprenticex wrote: »

hold on... did you go on holiday WITHOUT your husband but with this colleague?

Does your husband know you went on holiday with this person if he didnt go with you?

Oh for heavens sake. So the friend is a lesbian. So what. Doesn't mean she's going to jump on every woman who crosses her path.
I'm fairly sure the OPs husband has probably noticed she wasn't around for a week. She went on holiday with a friend - big deal, I do that regularly and shock horror some of them have husbands who've stayed behind. Some people just need to get a life and stop worrying about what other people are or aren't doing.

And breathe.

SkimmySim

elsien wrote: »

Oh for heavens sake. So the friend is a lesbian. So what. Doesn't mean she's going to jump on every woman who crosses her path.
I'm fairly sure the OPs husband has probably noticed she wasn't around for a week. She went on holiday with a friend - big deal, I do that regularly and shock horror some of them have husbands who've stayed behind. Some people just need to get a life and stop worrying about what other people are or aren't doing.

And breathe.

Exactly!!!! :T :T :T

xapprenticex

xapprenticex wrote: »

hold on... did you go on holiday WITHOUT your husband but with this colleague?

Does your husband know you went on holiday with this person if he didnt go with you?

im still interested in knowing

PenguinOfDeath

xapprenticex wrote: »

hold on... did you go on holiday WITHOUT your husband but with this colleague?

Does your husband know you went on holiday with this person if he didnt go with you?

:rotfl::rotfl: You get married to a husband, not joined at the hip!

duchy

xapprenticex wrote: »

hold on... did you go on holiday WITHOUT your husband but with this colleague?

Does your husband know you went on holiday with this person if he didnt go with you?

Pretty unobservant husband if he didn't notice she was gone.

Is there some rule that married women aren't allowed to go on holiday without their husbands ?

xapprenticex

I didnt ask if he was aware of her being on holiday, i asked if he was aware of who she went with, relates to the statement that was made about the gossip getting back to the husband. if he knows she went on holiday with this person, it wouldnt be an issue.

im going against what id normally do responding to a bandwagon episode where people unite and say the same thing over a quote they failed to comprehend.

Anywho, my interest in in the OP' response rather than the bandwagon special team (with all due respect of course)