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Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 13

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  • clarabell1984
    clarabell1984 Posts: 1,181 Forumite
    newthrift wrote: »
    Clara of course you can stay around :D

    Thank you :)
  • Cats, I think I gave up on the OPKs on 22nd June after my long spell of flashing smileys on cb digi. We BD'd on 22nd, 24th, 27th June and then not again until 7th July. Had positive ICOPK on 8th (out of the blue - only noticed cramps and EWCM) and BD'd 8th, 9th and 10th.

    I don't really see how we could have conceived before that weekend of 9th July, but didn't want to tell her she was wrong lol

    I've never used OPK's so not sure if this is possible but could it be that the smiley faces mean you OV'd last week of June and then the positive on the 8th July is because the HCG was already showing up in your system?

    That would put you 2 - 3 weeks for afternoon urine.

    Eeeekkk it's exciting. I'm looking forward to your first scan myself so you can confirm your dates.:rotfl:
  • clarabell1984
    clarabell1984 Posts: 1,181 Forumite
    I've never used OPK's so not sure if this is possible but could it be that the smiley faces mean you OV'd last week of June and then the positive on the 8th July is because the HCG was already showing up in your system?

    That would put you 2 - 3 weeks for afternoon urine.

    Eeeekkk it's exciting. I'm looking forward to your first scan myself so you can confirm your dates.:rotfl:

    I did wonder that, but I think the smiley faces are only 'high' fertility. I don't remember any other OV symptoms around that time and was no line on ICOPK that i did alongside. I did another ICOPK on the 9th and it was a lot fainter the day after the strong positive so not sure.

    My 2-3 weeks was ltoday after a 4 hour hold (only because I didn't have another digi to use this morning) The weak afternoon urine was yesterday which showed 1-2 weeks.

    Bamboozled!
  • angel11
    angel11 Posts: 411 Forumite
    Clara it's lovely to hear good news on this thread, especially when you know what some people have gone through to get their bfp. I think it kinda gives the rest of us some hope.

    It's the announcements in RL that I find difficult - like today with my cousin's pg announcement & scan pic. Totally wasn't prepared for it as they hadn't even been trying. I'm fed up of feeling jealous & bitter, I just want a baby already.
  • clarabell1984
    clarabell1984 Posts: 1,181 Forumite
    angel11 wrote: »
    Clara it's lovely to hear good news on this thread, especially when you know what some people have gone through to get their bfp. I think it kinda gives the rest of us some hope.

    It's the announcements in RL that I find difficult - like today with my cousin's pg announcement & scan pic. Totally wasn't prepared for it as they hadn't even been trying. I'm fed up of feeling jealous & bitter, I just want a baby already.

    Hugs for you Angel :grouphug:

    I completely understand where you are coming from. I was even getting annoyed at the soaps on TV, everybody pregnant and it's not even real!

    You should continue along with the acupuncture if you feel it is making a difference and try not to stress too much. Fingers crossed your BFP comes when you least expect it xxx
  • I know it's not exactly what I said in your case Clara but the 'when you least expect it' works. How many times do we see "I really thought I was in with a chance this cycle" and then again how many times do we see "I wasn't really expecting it, I forgot to test/didn't really BD that much/just relaxed".
  • clarabell1984
    clarabell1984 Posts: 1,181 Forumite
    I know it's not exactly what I said in your case Clara but the 'when you least expect it' works. How many times do we see "I really thought I was in with a chance this cycle" and then again how many times do we see "I wasn't really expecting it, I forgot to test/didn't really BD that much/just relaxed".

    Exactly Athens! Which is what has happened! And I think your other theory of OV last week in June may be right!

    The more I look at it, the more I'm thinking that's what my acupuncturist was implying (She also said OPKS are bad as not always accurate especially with PCOS!). If my CB digi is saying 2-3 weeks (4-5 in doctor terms) I could have conceived from the BDing on/around 27th June which would make me around 5 weeks (give or take) - I think? Does that seem possible? I have logged on Glow a lot of CM around then but not as EWCM and didn't take any OPK's then.

    This is when we were following SMEP
  • cats2012
    cats2012 Posts: 1,182 Forumite
    I think either is possible Clara but that definitely sounds feasible. Unfortunately you may have to wait for an early scan to know for sure!! For now just enjoy the news :-) sending loads of love xx
    Officially Mrs B as of March 2013
    TTC since Apr 2015, baby B born March 2017
  • newthrift
    newthrift Posts: 1,252 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
    CD22 newthrift - 3DPO :cool:
    "If in doubt - BD" Zone
    CD6 firebird082 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 ButterflyBabe -Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 LottieLou - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 angel11 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 midget_1907 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD27 athensgeorgia - Awaiting ov :o
    CD30 easilydistracted - Awaiting ov :o
    CD33 Keekee - Awaiting ov :o
    "Wine and Chocolate" zone
    CD4 Milliebob - Awaiting ov :o

    Those we haven't heard from in a while
    CD57 freshstart11 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD79 Alex_88 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD82 little angel - Awaiting ov :o
    CD113 Slinky_Selina - Awaiting ov :o
    CD128 the_insider - Awaiting ov :o

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    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
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  • angel11
    angel11 Posts: 411 Forumite
    I think my body might just be oving - I've had my first ever blob of proper ewcm & what I think are quite strong ov pains this morning & last night :j:j
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