Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 13

clarabell1984

Aww Rachy that's rubbish! I recommend the Seven Seas Cranberry capsules, they are about £6ish but I defo think they made a difference for me. Suffered from a few years back xxx

FreddieFrugal

I still feel the loss of our first - even if it was "only" at 12 weeks - that doesn't make a difference. You're feeling the loss of the child that you were expecting and hoping for.

I no longer feel the pain I had at the start.

But even with a baby on the way again, I still think about the one we lost. Wondering what they would have been like. Working out how old they would be now.

It's an awful thing to go through whatever stage in pregnancy it happens and it affects people in completely different ways.

We also hoped to get pregnant as soon as possible, it took 6 months. It's difficult but you just have to try and stay positive. Try and remember that it's a case of 'when' not 'if'.

MancMama4

Just echoing what others have said and sending out love and support to those who need it - I don't think the pain of a loss ever truly goes away, but it does fade a little with time and I have faith that things are going to get better for you Rachy.

So grateful for this thread! Xx

clarabell1984

Hope everyone is well today xx

I've really been trying not to SS but I've been having cramps since last night, can't work out if they feel like AF or not. They seem to be one sided but think I'm probably out this month . I'm 10DPO and struggling not to POAS! I can't face the disappointment!

I am going to try my hardest and not test until Saturday if AF hasn't arrived by Thursday/Friday.

Hope everyone is enjoying the lovely weather xx

newthrift

Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
CD53 clarabell1984 - 10DPO :cool:
CD53 freshstart11 - 17DPO :cool:
"If in doubt - BD" Zone
CD12 LottieLou - Awaiting ov
CD12 angel11 - Awaiting ov
CD14 midget_1907 - Awaiting ov
CD18 newthrift - Awaiting ov
CD23 athensgeorgia - Awaiting ov
CD26 easilydistracted - Awaiting ov
CD29 Keekee - Awaiting ov
CD29 Milliebob - Awaiting ov
"Wine and Chocolate" zone
CD2 firebird082 - Awaiting ov
CD4 ButterflyBabe -Awaiting ov
Those we haven't heard from in a while
CD75 Alex_88 - Awaiting ov
CD78 little angel - Awaiting ov
CD109 Slinky_Selina - Awaiting ov
CD124 the_insider - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
When posting updates, can you please do them in Magenta so it's easy to spot. This thread is all about support, so remember to click thanks on as many posts as you can! It makes us all feel loved.

For those posting on smartphones or tablets the code for magenta is
([ )COLOR="magenta"( ] )your text ( [ )/COLOR ( ] ) (lose the round bracket)

Please let me know if anything needs editing (including the zone you are in) and I will try to keep up.

Thread Graduates
Cats2012 BFP 9/7/16
big5 BFP 15/6/16
sexymouse BFP 4/6/16
VicVics BFP 16/5/16
MancMama4 BFP 29/4/16
pinkpetal BFP 24/4/16
Apple1985 BFP 19/4/16
Tinks05 BFP 18/4/16

newthrift

Hang in there clara I have my FX for you!! The weekend will soon be here for POAS, resist the temptation to before!!

All going ok here, OV expected tomorrow!

clarabell1984

Thanks Newthrift!n I'm determined not to POAS! Lol

We were out for dinner for MIL birthday tonight. All was going well until conversation turned to our 2 year old nephew! "Oh but he really needs a cousin to play with! Or a brother or sister" then his dad pipes in "oh I think they're done, I don't think they'll have anymore kids or they would have done by now!" Our nephew is only just 2!!!! :mad:

I said quite bluntly "well maybe they aren't able to! You don't know what happens behind closed doors!"

The conversation moved swiftly on...:rotfl:

Fingers crossed for ov for you tomorrow xx

newthrift

Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
CD54 clarabell1984 - 11DPO :cool:
CD54 freshstart11 - 18DPO :cool:
"If in doubt - BD" Zone
CD3 firebird082 - Awaiting ov
CD5 ButterflyBabe -Awaiting ov
CD13 LottieLou - Awaiting ov
CD13 angel11 - Awaiting ov
CD15 midget_1907 - Awaiting ov
CD19 newthrift - Awaiting ov
CD24 athensgeorgia - Awaiting ov
CD27 easilydistracted - Awaiting ov
CD30 Keekee - Awaiting ov
"Wine and Chocolate" zone
CD1 Milliebob - Awaiting ov
Those we haven't heard from in a while
CD76 Alex_88 - Awaiting ov
CD79 little angel - Awaiting ov
CD110 Slinky_Selina - Awaiting ov
CD125 the_insider - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
When posting updates, can you please do them in Magenta so it's easy to spot. This thread is all about support, so remember to click thanks on as many posts as you can! It makes us all feel loved.

For those posting on smartphones or tablets the code for magenta is
([ )COLOR="magenta"( ] )your text ( [ )/COLOR ( ] ) (lose the round bracket)

Please let me know if anything needs editing (including the zone you are in) and I will try to keep up.

Thread Graduates
Cats2012 BFP 9/7/16
big5 BFP 15/6/16
sexymouse BFP 4/6/16
VicVics BFP 16/5/16
MancMama4 BFP 29/4/16
pinkpetal BFP 24/4/16
Apple1985 BFP 19/4/16
Tinks05 BFP 18/4/16

Milliebob

Sorry to be a pain but please can I be updated to CD1.

On to cycle 16!

We have a hospital appointment next week to discuss results of all of our tests.

newthrift

:rotfl: clara oh dear....well at least you managed to swiftly end the conversation

We had the night off BD'ing last night (Saturday night - Monday night = 4 times so though best have a rest haha) App predicts OV today so will def BD tonight and then try to carry on every other through rest of the week - just to be extra sure
Trying my best to keep positive, here's to me joining the delightful 2ww tomorrow

milliebob - sorry AF arrived hope everything goes ok next week.