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Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 13

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  • cats2012
    cats2012 Posts: 1,182 Forumite
    Makes sense mouse thank you for everything :-) I can't get on every day so probs not the best person to take it off you. I think maybe just a fresh post of BFPs will be fine as well.

    Good luck with everything!!

    Although the for the record you're def not rubbing salt in anything you've had your own tough journey xx
    Officially Mrs B as of March 2013
    TTC since Apr 2015, baby B born March 2017
  • cats2012
    cats2012 Posts: 1,182 Forumite
    Another scan pic on Facebook this morning aaaaahhhhh it's not flippin fair!!!! (Insert much stronger word!)

    So tomorrow is the family party we're not going to. I feel terrible for lying because I love OHs family so much and I feel we should just suck it up and cope but OH is adamant he wouldn't cope and I think he's probably right. This scan pic has got me enough let alone being surrounded my an excited grandma to be and hundreds of "you next?" questions.

    First time I've ever done anything like this though and I hate lying and thinking how much his grandad will miss us. But as OH says he'll just get a second birthday celebration when we go down another weekend soon.

    *rant over*
    Officially Mrs B as of March 2013
    TTC since Apr 2015, baby B born March 2017
  • sweetilemon
    sweetilemon Posts: 2,243 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Awww cats I know the feeling. I get so upset sometimes seeing proud mummies out with their newborns, just think it should be me and my baby girl. It's only natural.

    I'm still in limbo, BFN yet no sign of AF. Think I'm about 5 days late. Wish one or the other would appear. Guess it's just irregular cycles from hormones. I had my BFP by this point last time I was late. Think my body is playing cruel tricks.
  • newthrift
    newthrift Posts: 1,252 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Meep I am so sorry to 'hear' your news :( wishing you lots of luck for the next stage of your ttc journey whatever you decide to do!

    clara I am really sorry :( I guess at least it's "good" (used very loosely) they have found something and can offer assistance! Sending lots of hugs!

    Mouse you are defiantly not rubbing it in at all but I understand your feeling! I can have a go at doing the lists if I can work out to do it from my phone as I hardly ever go on my laptop when I come on here.

    Well it's CD1 for me :( although I knew it would be quite unlikely to of got caught this month, we didn't really do much BD'ing around fertile window as we just relaxed and didn't think about it I'm still disappointed. On to cycle 8! DH has said this morning we will really go for it this month :rotfl: so here is hoping this time we'll get lucky!
    Christmas is the most magical time of the year :santa2:
    Mum to two boys :heartpuls
  • newthrift
    newthrift Posts: 1,252 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
    CD24 A0503 - 7DPO :cool:
    CD32 cats2012 - 12DPO :cool:

    "If in doubt - BD" Zone

    CD9 easilydistracted - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Keekee - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Milliebob - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 firebird082 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 ButterflyBabe - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 angel11 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD24 midget_1907 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD36 clarabell1984 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD92 Slinky_Selina - Awaiting ov :o

    "Wine and Chocolate" zone
    CD6 athensgeorgia - Awaiting ov :o
    CD1 newthrift - Awaiting ov :o

    Those we haven't heard from in a while
    CD58 Alex_88 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD61 little angel - Awaiting ov :o
    CD107 the_insider - Awaiting ov :o

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
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    Please let me know if anything needs editing (including the zone you are in) and I will try to keep up.
    Christmas is the most magical time of the year :santa2:
    Mum to two boys :heartpuls
  • newthrift
    newthrift Posts: 1,252 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Hopefully that's all correct (added two days on as last list was Thursday) managed to do it from my phone - phew!
    Christmas is the most magical time of the year :santa2:
    Mum to two boys :heartpuls
  • sexymouse
    sexymouse Posts: 6,131 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Thank you newthrift and sorry AF came along. Xx
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • angel11
    angel11 Posts: 411 Forumite
    Sexymouse thanks for setting up & keeping this thread running, hope the rest of your pg goes smoothly for you xx

    Newthrift sorry AF showed up, & thanks for taking over the lists.

    Sweetilemon sorry things are all still a bit up in the air for you, must be so so frustrating.

    Cats I completely get where you're coming from, I get insane bouts of jealousy for anyone who's pg, or has a family at all. Totally irrational of course, but it is what it is. You & dp have to go with whatever feels right for you.

    Afm, I've decided to make some changes to my diet, including going gluten free - it can't do any harm & I've got nothing to lose right now - & I'll keep on with the acupuncturist sessions. I'm prob going to take a step back from the thread, since I'm not oving. I'll keep checking in from time to time, hoping to see some bfps, & I'll post anything I learn that may of use to others.

    Thanks for all the support so far, you ladies have made this whole journey so much easier for me just by being here. Fx for some good news for you all soon, I think it's def due lol. And hopefully it won't be too long before I'm back & oving xx
  • cats2012
    cats2012 Posts: 1,182 Forumite
    Angel - please excuse my memory but have you ever had a definite positive opk or tried temping? I'm just so surprised the acupuncturist is convinced when you're doc wasn't - makes me really wonder how much they know!!!
    Officially Mrs B as of March 2013
    TTC since Apr 2015, baby B born March 2017
  • sweetilemon
    sweetilemon Posts: 2,243 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Well I'm out, 6 days late. Stupid hormones. Secretly gutted but probably best so soon after losing my baby girl. I'll leave you all for now and hopefully be back in the future when OH agrees to start trying. Possibly summer next year but fingers crossed for sooner. I wish you all the very best of luck. Baby dust to everyone.
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