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Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 13

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  • sexymouse
    sexymouse Posts: 6,131 Forumite
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    Huge hugs newthrift - it doesn't matter how early it is, it's your future with that baby that you will be grieving, so give yourself the time to do that. We'll be here when you feel ready to return. xx

    Sorry to hear the witch has shown athens.
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • Meepmeep
    Meepmeep Posts: 69 Forumite
    Million hugs newthrift - look after yourself xx
  • Milliebob
    Milliebob Posts: 248 Forumite
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    I'm so sorry newthrift - you and your DH take care of yourselves xxx
    Happiness can be found in even the darkest of places, if one only remembers to turn on the light - Albus Dumbledore
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  • sexymouse
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    Good luck for your test tomorrow Milliebob xx
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • cats2012
    cats2012 Posts: 1,182 Forumite
    Unfortunately it was not to be. Chemical preg not sticky bean. Onwards and upwards - we at least now have faith it will happen!! Love to all and sorry to hear you're in a similar situation newthrift xx
    Officially Mrs B as of March 2013
    TTC since Apr 2015, baby B born March 2017
  • sexymouse
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    Huge hugs cats. So sorry it wasn't your sticky bean xx
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • Milliebob
    Milliebob Posts: 248 Forumite
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    Oh no! So sorry cats, that's appallingly cruel of your body, after all this time waiting for a bfp :(
    Happiness can be found in even the darkest of places, if one only remembers to turn on the light - Albus Dumbledore
    Happy Comper since Dec 2013
    Baby #1 Sept 2012
    Wedding 21st May 2015
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  • FreddieFrugal
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    Really sorry Cats, you've had to put a lot into getting that BFP and if anyone deserved it you did. But you're right to see the positive side that you did manage to conceive. After we lost our first at 12wks one of the few positive things we could say when trying again was at least we know we CAN conceive. I'm sure it'll happen for you soon.

    Sorry to Newthrift as well, it must be really upsetting. I know no matter how early a miscarriage happens its devastating to someone who really wants that baby. You mourn the child that you could have had. The one positive is that because it was early, you have the opportunity to start trying again sooner.

    Make sure you take whatever time you need first and best of luck for the future.

    It'll happen!
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  • newthrift
    newthrift Posts: 1,252 Forumite
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    Thanks all :) really do appreciate the support here!
    cats big hugs, so sorry that it didn't stick!! Glad to see you are taking the positive and fingers crossed it won't be long.

    Been doing a little research online and can see that vit d can be a big help so going to look at getting some when i'm out tomorrow and start taking that with my folic acid. I don't think I can be really short of any other vits as I eat a healthy and varied diet (excluding the piece of choc cheesecake I had yesterday). So just stepping up my game a bit now.
    Christmas is the most magical time of the year :santa2:
    Mum to two boys :heartpuls
  • MancMama4
    MancMama4 Posts: 623 Forumite
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    newthrift I'm sure it wasn't anything you did or didn't take, but coincidentally I was advised vit D by my acupuncturist after my mmc so its worth a go x
    MancMama4 (35) TTC since Apr 15, MMC Dec 15, Our Rainbow Baby Charlie arrived Dec 16 :heart2:
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