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Extending our house without extending ourselves beyond our means

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  • PurpleFairy26
    PurpleFairy26 Posts: 3,903 Forumite
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    Hope you had a good day PF. Often think of you when I’m running... :)
    Thanks brizzle we did have a good day thanks. I managed a slow run at the weekend but thoroughly enjoyed it. Glad to be getting back out there slowly. 

    Yesterday DH pottered in the garden, he tidied the patio and moved some pots around and gave it a sweep. Looks loads better. We also sat out after tea and talked about plans for the garden. Part of this issue is that we can’t do some work until a fence is replaced but it’s not ours and next door aren’t interested in doing it as it’s rented so a) obviously not the responsibility of the people who live there and b) there is so much hedge and shrubbery that the landlord couldn’t even see it if they came to their house as it has been broken for over a year. We don’t really want to pay for a new fence there But we also want it to look nice so are trying to work out options! 

    We ate both lunch and dinner outside yesterday which was fab. I managed to get a few jobs done which was helpful. 

    The tomato plant I bought back in from outside in loving its new spot and growing rapidly. I will plant that and a couple of items out over the next couple of days so I can then plant on some more seedlings on inside to grow stronger as I’ll have some pots free. 

    Payday tomorrow so I’ve made sure the accounts all balance for the end of the out pay month. 

    Hoping we can do more in the garden this weekend. It’s looking loads better. 
  • savingholmes
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    Glad things are going well PF. My indoor tomato plant is definitely further on than the one I planted outside. The indoor one already has flowers.
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  • joedenise
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    We've got the same problem PF with regard to the fence.  We've replaced our side but next door is rented and they're not bothered for the same reason.  There's also a load of plants in the way which is part of the problem of the fence being warped as the roots are so close to it.  I think it's a case of grin and bear it or try to cover it up somehow from your own side.

  • PurpleFairy26
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    joedenise said:
    We've got the same problem PF with regard to the fence.  We've replaced our side but next door is rented and they're not bothered for the same reason.  There's also a load of plants in the way which is part of the problem of the fence being warped as the roots are so close to it.  I think it's a case of grin and bear it or try to cover it up somehow from your own side.

    It's so frustrating isn't it as it's really making our garden look a state. We've talked to our builder and he's given us some other ideas so we are going to explore those and see where we get to, but yes it will likely end up us making it look good from our side. 

    Heavy rain here this morning and night winds so washing out of the equation. Have done some cleaning and I'm going to do some painting this afternoon nice and safe indoors. The outside jobs can wait for another day. 

    Lovely face time with my folks this morning. Lockdown would have been much harder without technology like that. 

    I've done some housework and sorting this morning so a couple of places look a bit tidier. Rest will get done later or tomorrow. 
  • PurpleFairy26
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    DH has been super busy this last week. Painted most of the fence, will need a second coat but looks so much better already. He’s also made some furniture for one of the bedrooms which I can now move stuff about to maximise the space. 

    This gives us our hallway back (where the furniture had been stored) so time to give that a good tidy too. 

    Been playing around with some options on paper for the format of a room we are looking to complete when lockdown lifts. Need to discuss with DH when we get a chance. 

    Garden needs more work and some stuff planting out but it’s a bit chicken and egg until the fence is finished. Will plant some seedlings on to bigger pots though at some stage in the next few days. 

    Lockdown to do list has been updated. Few more things added, a few completed. Material has arrived for a blind so I need to get DH to dig out sewing machine out of loft when he’s next up there. 
  • debtfreeoneday
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    Garden sounds like it’s coming on great PF x
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    Visitors - how lovely 😊 

    dawn 
    thanks for the info on the Apple tree, mine is miniature too so might give it a hair cut today. 
  • foxgloves
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    I can't grow blueberries, despite being pretty green-fingered on the whole. I gave up on trying & composted the plants. Our current home grown fruit crops are apples, pears, rhubarb & strawberries. Raspberries probably to be added once we have managed to clear a tricky bit of ground.
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