Weekly Flylady Thread 28th March 2016

Dizzy_Imp

^^^^ !!!!!!???!!!??? ^^^^

Is this bloke for real? He is a proper ladygarden for sure. It can't be OK for the police to expect you to live in fear like this.

Sending huge hugs to protect you from this evil man.

Words fail me.

Biscuit_monster

Piggers do you have a non molestation order against him?

He sounds like a piece of work. Don't let his mentalness affect your relationship with your OH, cf would probably love that. Hugs x

Well today I:
[STRIKE]Strip our bed
WM
DW
Kitchen worktops [/STRIKE]
Cancel car insurance :mad: enough said
[STRIKE]Clean bog, sink, bath
HHI
Clear bedroom floors
Hoover bedrooms[/STRIKE]
Tidy hall
Hoover kitchen and hall
Mop kitchen and hall
Mop bathroom
[STRIKE]Walk dog[/STRIKE]
Wipe over mucky bits in living room
Papery hotspot Grrrrrrr
If there is any time left, painting

Overall, not bad as the dog walk took years as I had the kids with me.
Then we played board games. Game of Life (Omg, a game from my childhood) and Monopoly, which took three hours and led to a complete bad loser meltdown from Dd1 when her little sister beat us all.

YORKSHIRELASS

Oh Pigpen lets just hope there will come a day when the kids are grown and you dont have to have any sort of contact with this waste of space.. as Dizzy says words fail me.

I have come clean with both my sister in laws about my anxiety. No-one knows that I have had anxiety on and off for the last 10 years except my Mum and DH but I cant go on making excuses. It feels horrible, I feel embarrassed and pathetic. I know thats wrong but there you go.

On the flying front I have done some paid stuff today and been shopping. The house is reasonably tidy and I have managed to do some washing at least. Day at home tomorrow I think, other than ferrying DS2 to work and back.

pigpen

Nothing in place Biscuit.. the courts were supposed to be doing one months ago and didn't do it.. How do I keep it together for DS3 when I am falling to biys myself???

Biscuit_monster

piggers if he has made a recent threat to kill I'm sure that is grounds enough to get an emergency injunction against him, speak to your solicitor.

yl telling more people will help, I'm sure, as long as they are understanding. You know you are strong. X

Jazee

Morning all. Thoughts with Piggers and YSL today.

I'm not sure what I'm doing today as DH is unwell and we were supposed to be going for a meal later. Yesterday, as I was in a bad mood, I just sat and did my nails and read magazines.

Let's try a list:
Make breakfast
WUDUPA
Sort out washing on airers
Walk dogs
Lovely soak in bath
Maybe some hoovering
Maybe some gardening

And I need to pop to @rgos to pick some bits up.

Have a great day everyone.

Dizzy_Imp

Good morning ladies - still in bed with chest pain that's been rumbling since it woke me up Friday at 1am...think it might be stress related and over doing it physically, but I thought I was having a heart attack it was so bad

Consequently, I'm not planning much today. Skids are here and DH's cousin wants to get together, but I'm leaving it to DH to organise.

YL - agree that telling people about your anxiety might help. My friend had crushing anxiety that she hid from most people for years, but in the end revealed it and was overwhelmed with support and understanding. Good for you for making this first step xxx

Pigpen - I'm still outraged on your behalf. I read about situations where women have been failed by the system in the news and can never believe how it happens. Biscuit is right - get in touch with your solicitor!!

Frizzlef

Pigpen- I can't believe somebody could do that!! Just awful. Hope you can find some strength to find a happier place x xxx
YL- glad you have felt strong enough to share your feelings

I had a busy day yesterday but pleased with what I got done. OH going out at 10.30 to travel to a footie match (4pm kick off) and boys not getting back until about 3pm. Then m and d are staying for dinner. So a couple of hours with just little miss and I. Although I do need to go shopping!


Wash kiddies bedding
Make carrot soup
Make shepherds pie for dinner
Wm x2
Hoover stairs

Funky Friday - Master bedroom and Landing
Deal with the floordrobe
Vacuum floors
Dust and deweb.. inc bed frame!!

Extras
Wipe hand rails on stairs

pigpen

I was on the phone to my solicitor on Friday when he was screaming in the street and he said unless I can fork out £900 there is nothing they can or will do and to just ring the police.. he was about as much use as a chocolate teapot!

Biscuit_monster

Morning,

List :

WM
DW
S&S
Kitchen surfaces
Kitchen floor Hoover and mop
Tidy hall
Hoover and mop hall
Mop bathroom
Walk dog and take kids to park
Wipe mucky bits LR
Clear the hotspot
Bit of weeding
Poo patrol
Little bike ride?
Painting.

Why is painting always last on the list?
I never get to it.

Hugs whether you want them or not to piggers , yl and dizzy x