Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 3

annandale

I believe Dekaspace has aspergers (sorry if I am wrong) which might have a bearing on how they deal with stressful situations.

calleyw

heartbreak_star wrote: »

(Or has she forgotten about it? That's the kind of thing I would do hahaha!)

HBS x

HBS,


No as I reminded her about it a few weeks ago and as I told her she needed to book in advance. Where she retorted that she was not that stupid:eek:


Yours


Calley x

dekaspace

Yes I have aspergers as well as other things on top, had to be strong today I was seeing if the messages slowed down, if it does continue I may have to change number or at least I will keep the number but use another phone and sim I have instead, my friends and parents have it and currently its the backup number for DWP and bank etc so that way they can message all they want.

The messages I ignored today did annoy me a bit though, ones telling me that they don't want to fall out with me over this (the cheek, when they owe me money) playing on my guilt saying its for the girlfriends relative who is on a breathing machine in hospital and its for medical costs its "only £20" I will get cash next week when they start new job, even hint they have to go to loan shark if I don't do this which will cause him more problems.

I was drained today and slept 12 hours due to all the stress, after the weekend Im going to use my other phone for a while.

Pyxis

annandale wrote: »

I believe Dekaspace has aspergers (sorry if I am wrong) which might have a bearing on how they deal with stressful situations.

dekaspace wrote: »

Yes I have aspergers as well as other things on top,

Yes, we do know that Deka has Asperger's, and other issues, which is why we have all been trying very, very hard to be as helpful and supportive as possible.

heartbreak_star

calleyw wrote: »

HBS,


No as I reminded her about it a few weeks ago and as I told her she needed to book in advance. Where she retorted that she was not that stupid:eek:


Yours


Calley x

Oh my, well that's you told haha!

Definitely wouldn't spend that much or get something quite that nice again...

HBS x

calleyw

heartbreak_star wrote: »

Oh my, well that's you told haha!

Definitely wouldn't spend that much or get something quite that nice again...

HBS x

HBS,


still not phoned to ask as dreading the reply. i bought this as she has never been in that hotel. and she never really treats herself. so wanted to do something nice for her.


i did get her afternoon tea for birthday 3 years ago at the local garden centre. but this hotel is a lot posher.


don't know what my families issues are. like totally blanking AM's birthday. they have never even asked when it is. And we have been together 2 years. he does not mind but i do. its slightly my choice of who i choose to share my life with. mind you annoys me that my dad made a sarky comment i was a day late with my mums birthday card and present. had it in my head it was friday and not thursday. i felt like saying while AM is still waiting and its been nearly 5 months!!!!





my parents are not the best couple to take an example of being happily married. there is stuff i know about my dad. that i believe my mum has no idea about. i will not tell and not much point as it happened over 50 years ago.



and they wonder why i don't bother with them much


everyone take care


yours


calley x

Pyxis

.
Interesting programme about PENGUINS!


Next Sunday, 18th November, BBC 1 at 20:00, as part of the "Dynasties" wildlife series.

"Learn how to identify an individual from their unique characteristics".

Apparently there is a penguin with an almost completely black chest! A 'melanistic' penguin.


It all sounds very interesting.

Waves_and_Smiles

Oooh penguins, I might try to watch that Pyxis, thank you! I remember when I had the wildlife experience and met penguins, they were surprisingly curious and gently nipped me constantly.

I saw the doctor for the first time here today. It seems some of my medication might be changing. He pointed out that Wales does not charge for prescriptions (and therefore they lose that money) so doctors tend to opt for the cheapest medication for the job. Apparently 3 of my pills are very expensive. They may stop my rosacea medication entirely as they see it as cosmetic. I did point out I am paranoid enough as it is without trying to go out with a scabbed and bleeding face! Hopefully the substituted medications for the other things will be fine but I am panicking a bit because I tend to react very oddly to many medications and there are only a few I can take. It took a long time and a lot of side effects to find the current balance.

mellymoo74

We fell foul off the cosmetic thing yesterday WaS

OH has a large cyst on his chest, it's been there for about 20 years, it rubs on his tops and occasionally leaks the FOULEST smelling stuff.

Yesterday we went to a hospital appointment

Met a doctor who said it was cosmetic, and as OH had cost the NHS about 3 million pounds for his ITU stay last year it was tough.

Still furious

AylesburyDuck

dekaspace wrote: »

Yes I have aspergers as well as other things on top, had to be strong today I was seeing if the messages slowed down, if it does continue I may have to change number or at least I will keep the number but use another phone and sim I have instead, my friends and parents have it and currently its the backup number for DWP and bank etc so that way they can message all they want.

The messages I ignored today did annoy me a bit though, ones telling me that they don't want to fall out with me over this (the cheek, when they owe me money) playing on my guilt saying its for the girlfriends relative who is on a breathing machine in hospital and its for medical costs its "only £20" I will get cash next week when they start new job, even hint they have to go to loan shark if I don't do this which will cause him more problems.

I was drained today and slept 12 hours due to all the stress, after the weekend Im going to use my other phone for a while.

Greetings fellow Aspie,
As i havnt read all the posts has it been suggested at all that you should contact the Police regarding this relative as its harassment.
When they see all the missed calls and /or messages ect daily, they will be asked to stop, if they dont it can mean jail time. If anything will stop them, this will.