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  • :grouphug:

    What a bummer :(


    I'm sending you a hug to hopefully cheer you up a little.

    How are your surveys going? Are you due any payments from any of them?
    x
    SP 9#531=£620/SP 10 # 531=?PDBX 2016 #2 = £16,766.67/£12,000
    PDBX 2017 #2 = £1,200/£12,000


    ''If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain''
  • Popstess
    Popstess Posts: 351 Forumite
    Ran dry a bit just £10 voucher for sainsburys x
  • Could your son have friends round to watch a movie with popcorn and crisps maybe.

    Just an idea. I am not great with finances as you know :o
    x
    SP 9#531=£620/SP 10 # 531=?PDBX 2016 #2 = £16,766.67/£12,000
    PDBX 2017 #2 = £1,200/£12,000


    ''If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain''
  • Florence_J
    Florence_J Posts: 1,942 Forumite
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    Sending a lot of love your way, I hope something comes along.
    Debt Free Stage 1 - Completed 27/08/2020
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  • kerri_gt
    kerri_gt Posts: 11,202 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear you've hit a bumpy patch Popstess - definitely not easy when the kids are off. Good idea from 12 month about having DS friends round for a movie afternoon / evening, or perhaps a games tournament if his friends are into console games? Shame the weather isn't friendlier or I'd suggest something like a nature walk (beef it up boy style calling it a 'forest survival trek' or something suitably Bear Grylls - though I don't suggest eating bugs just yet) with sandwiches and hot choc (flask of) at the end?

    Does DS like cooking at all? I know he's fussy with food but wondered if you had ingredients in for him to help bake / make dinner one night, you could pretend its a posh restaurant and have him serve like a posh waiter if he'd enjoy that?

    Sorry to sound a bore but are all the bills etc covered until pay day and has DS dad given you £ to help support running the house for his son?
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  • Popstess
    Popstess Posts: 351 Forumite
    Thanks all, great ideas. He's a good lad to be honest and not demanding at all it's just a bit frustrating for me to not have a penny to spend on even the smallest of things
  • kerri_gt
    kerri_gt Posts: 11,202 Forumite
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    Big hugs Popstess From personal experience I know its hard not to have two pennies to rub together when you want to treat your child - don't get me wrong, I do remember an appreciate lots of things my mum did manage to pay to send me on, but some of my best memories of being a kid are also spending time with friends, just being out and about playing on our bikes or skateboards etc, having tea with friends, going round each others houses and watching movies and lots of things that can be done for free.
    Hang in there xx
    Feb 2015 NSD Challenge 8/12
    JAN NSD 11/16


  • amber03
    amber03 Posts: 1,394 Forumite
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    Bad month for me as well. DH just had his birthday and DS is now off school for two weeks. Roll on next payday as no big spends out of next paydays money.x
    :j Debtfree and and staying that way.:j3-6 month emergency fund, No.61 £140.00
  • tweets
    tweets Posts: 35,946 Forumite
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    Popstess are you ok ?

    Was payday and you not posted :(
  • Hope you are ok too Pops :)

    You've not been on for a while
    x
    SP 9#531=£620/SP 10 # 531=?PDBX 2016 #2 = £16,766.67/£12,000
    PDBX 2017 #2 = £1,200/£12,000


    ''If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain''
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