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Words or phrases that annoy you

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  • missbiggles1
    missbiggles1 Posts: 17,481 Forumite
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    edited 25 March 2016 at 9:28AM
    I can't stand the way the word "sad" has been hijacked as "youth speak". It should refer to an unhappy event or mood, not having age inappropriate trainers on.

    I feel the same way about "ignorant". I use it in its correct sense and then people who use it in the yoof sense get angry because they think they've been insulted. That means that there isn't another single word for lacking knowledge - perhaps because nobody thinks it important nowadays.:(
  • missbiggles1
    missbiggles1 Posts: 17,481 Forumite
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    Peter333 wrote: »
    I hate over politeness too!

    Be polite and courteous yes, but not overly polite, because it just comes across as fake.

    One of my pet hates is when you go to a checkout and they say 'sorry to keep you waiting!' No. You're not. You don't CARE, you say it because you are told to say it by your bosses!

    I mean, I have even had them say it when I have not even been waiting. Force of habit, told to say it, whatever. They don't mean it.

    But yes, someone thanking me over and over and over just grates on me.

    As I said, it sounds fake - and insincere.

    Being polite and courteous often means saying something you don't actually feel. If you only say what you feel, life becomes unpleasant and brutish as we see so often these days - manners makes life more pleasant for everybody.
  • AprilLady
    AprilLady Posts: 954 Forumite
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    barbiedoll wrote: »
    People who call their young sons "My little man"...No, he's a little boy. Tom Cruise is a little man. There is a difference.

    I was going to say this - it drives me CRAZY!

  • missbiggles1
    missbiggles1 Posts: 17,481 Forumite
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    AprilLady wrote: »
    I was going to say this - it drives me CRAZY!


    Literally?;)
  • DollyDee_2
    DollyDee_2 Posts: 765 Forumite
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    Don't know if this one has been mentioned as I haven't read every page.


    Someone asks someone else a question. Before the person answering has had time to finish, the person who asked the question butts in with "Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah" as if they know it all. Why ask in the first place if they do?


    I really thought this one had died out (after about 10 years) but I've just spent quite a bit of time with two people who have done this frequently (not just with me). Needless to say I've had to grit my teeth a lot. I think it's really rude.
  • thisuseridistakenagain
    thisuseridistakenagain Posts: 740 Forumite
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    edited 28 March 2016 at 3:43PM
    I don't mind anything which is part of an accent or dialect. Thats someone's natural speech, they aren't doing it on purpose to sound 'cool' it's just how they were taught to speak.

    I'm sick ot the back teeth of:

    I COULD care less. (I'd prefer 'I could care more' Makes more sense)
    Cray, Cray (!!!!!!?)
    Just sayin'/Don't take this the wrong way... (Don't say it then)
    Totes Amazeballs Awesomesauce (enough said)
    By bad. (childish)

    Also when people say ate as 'et'

    I just et a biscuit.
    It only takes a second to say 'Thanks, you just saved me a few quid!'

    No Buying Unnecessary Toiletries Challenge June
    Toiletries used up- 4 Makeup used up- 2
  • AprilLady
    AprilLady Posts: 954 Forumite
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    Literally?;)


    Haha, I knew whatever I wrote would be picked up on somehow in this thread - I should've been more careful! ;-) But no, not literally, that's another annoyance!
  • barbiedoll
    barbiedoll Posts: 5,328 Forumite
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    jemb wrote: »
    Don't agree with the "we're pregnant" one. They together are having a baby, together they will be parents. Together they are pregnant.

    No, they're not! She is pregnant, they will be parents together (hopefully)

    Unless he is a seahorse, he will never be pregnant. :rotfl:

    To be fair, I usually hear this from very excited young men who are very keen to let everyone (and especially their pregnant partner) know that they are totally on board with the whole pregnancy thing and that they are going to be involved from the very start. Which is a good thing, obviously, and is very heart-warming. But it's still wrong!
    "I may be many things but not being indiscreet isn't one of them"
  • PenguinOfDeath
    PenguinOfDeath Posts: 1,863 Forumite
    When people, at any time of the year, see snow and declare 'it's Christmas!'

    NO!

    No, it is not Christmas!

    Christmas is a time of year, snow is weather, one does NOT mean the other!
  • lizzy85
    lizzy85 Posts: 77 Forumite
    I hate hearing "whatever" and reading "lol".
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