A Diary of Reinventing Ourselves

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  • getmore4less
    getmore4less Posts: 46,882 Forumite
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    Dropped in to have a look so did FT late Wed but no update?
  • chevalier
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    Good morning
    I have read both your diaries, and I am very impressed with your progress. You have come a long way in such a short time.

    I understand how difficult your housing situation must be. I don't live in the country, but I did have a child who desperately wanted to go to one particular school. We had to wait 18 months before we found a house that we could afford that was also in zone for the school. It isn't very nice if I am honest, the previous tenants didn't do a very good clean, and it is very dated.

    On the other hand my child is happy at school and the other one was able to stay where they wanted too.

    I guess what I am saying is that as you have a deadline you are going to have to take a not so nice house because moving the kids schools is non negotiable. Your OH has to be made to see this. I agree that you don't want to overstay your leaving date, as this might cause you problems later.

    I am guessing that you are not online because you are moving or else having very intense conversations with your OH about what you can do now in this moment. As we are now at the end of the financial year, I guess the books are now done, and the information you have found may not be very pretty.

    I don't know much about directors loans etc, but there is no reason why you can't contact the accountant is there to ask what is happening? You need to know for your own tax I think as you are being 'paid' something from the business?

    Good luck with sorting this stuff out. I can only imagine how tough it is to manage your current situation when you and your OH are not quite on the same page yet.
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    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
  • chevalier
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    Hope all is well
    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
  • retepetsir
    retepetsir Posts: 1,236 Forumite
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    Hope you're ok FT!

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  • getmore4less
    getmore4less Posts: 46,882 Forumite
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    OP had another visit but no updates
  • chevalier
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    Hope all is well
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    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
  • mangle101
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    Adrian Mole has updated his diary more frequently as of late FT! ;) Hope things are going as planned :)
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  • mangle101
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    Hope things have panned out as planned FT.
    'Dont Bury Your Head In The Sand As Your Problems Will Still Exist'
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  • Verbatim
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    Me too. Hope all is well.
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  • retepetsir
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    So much for being in for the long haul... :money:

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