Finding partner for serious relationship.

yvonne13_2

Gulash wrote: »

There is nothing wrong with my attitude. I am just stating facts.
I am looking for any sensible woman 20-32, mature with brains.
Only men have no children? Also, another typical british awful trait, that most men abandon their children! !!!!!! you idiot man, am I (taxpayer) gonna pay for your child???

OP do you need to go and see a doctor???? Can you hear youself. NO sensible woman wants you as you suck big time. You come across like a virgin that can't handle rejection. I suggest you stay away from the dating scene and find someone from a third world country to marry as all I can see you doing is slating all British females.

FBaby

I am looking for any sensible woman 20-32, mature with brains.

That's fine, but this type of women will most likely be looking for the same thing, and judging on your posts here, you are coming across as having either. Maybe you need to lower your standards?

suki1964

When you don't have time to shower daily, when do you think you will find the time to invest in a relationship ?

Lily-Rose_3

Gloomendoom wrote: »

That doesn't mean that they don't exist, or are even uncommon. Without straining my grey matter, I could name two: my wife and her sister.

Having said that, neither myself or my sister-in-law's husband were specifically looking for 20 something women. Neither of us are rich or famous either.

I didn't say big age gap relationships don't exist, but they are the exception rather than the rule. I don't see how anyone can deny that.

DUTR wrote: »

Disagree, it's not a one cap fits all, depends on what both party's are looking for, or not looking for.

As above ^^^ Very few people will end up with someone much older or much younger; most people will ultimately end up in a relationship with someone who is less than 10 years younger or less than 10 years older. I don't see how anyone can deny that either. You only have to look all around you, everywhere you go, to see that most people are with someone close to their age.

Gulash wrote: »

There is nothing wrong with my attitude. I am just stating facts.
I am looking for any sensible woman 20-32, mature with brains.
Only men have no children? Also, another typical british awful trait, that most men abandon their children! !!!!!! you idiot man, am I (taxpayer) gonna pay for your child???

With every post you put on here, it becomes clearer and clearer why you are single.

The poster in question wasn't saying that all men abandon their children; !!!!!! are you on about?! The fact is though that very very very few men will have custody of the kids. It's almost always the woman.

For the record, you have NO chance of getting ANY 20-32 year old woman with brains!

NO CHANCE!

Gulash

I want a good girl with values, beautiful, above 1.70m, not fat, university educated. But it's so hard to find that combination! And most of these girls don't reply to me.

DUTR

Gulash wrote: »

I want a good girl with values, beautiful, above 1.70m, not fat, university educated. But it's so hard to find that combination! And most of these girls don't reply to me.

Values can be good or bad.
Beauty varies depending on the viewer.
Height is what nature and genes dicate.
University educated? Some modern degrees are not saying as much as years ago.

Hard to find that combination? I disagree, however on top of that, you would have to fit their tick boxes too.
And the type of person you are looking for may not hang out on dating sites.
What if someone ticked all the boxes yet they were 'only' 5ft 6?
Or what if someone ticked all your boxes, yet you were not tall enough/ too tall, too thin, too fat, too educated, not educated enough?

VfM4meplse

Maureen43 wrote: »

I'm not saying single men in their forties actually GET the 20yr old women they are looking for. However I do feel that is what they are looking for, especially online.

My observation is that very plain and non-descript men seem to think they are far more attractive than their photo would suggest. Compare female pics online and you will see whatever age, the women are reasonably-to-super atrractive.

Men are quite happy to upload shots that do them no favours.

DUTR

VfM4meplse wrote: »

My observation is that very plain and non-descript men seem to think they are far more attractive than their photo would suggest. Compare female pics online and you will see whatever age, the women are reasonably-to-super atrractive.

Men are quite happy to upload shots that do them no favours.

Well we can't slap on a load of make up, it's basically what you see is what you get.
Then there are those apps, that can give an instant make over , thin the face etc.

PasturesNew

Gulash wrote: »

I want a good girl with values, beautiful, above 1.70m, not fat, university educated. But it's so hard to find that combination! And most of these girls don't reply to me.

Because you come across as some oddball .... and the last thing any woman needs is an oddball in their life.

You've the potential to be needy, to become a liability, maybe scary, or dangerous.

Nobody needs that.

You need to learn to not come across as scary/needy/desperate/ or picky/demanding ... or weird/odd.

Gulash

PasturesNew wrote: »

Because you come across as some oddball .... and the last thing any woman needs is an oddball in their life.

You've the potential to be needy, to become a liability, maybe scary, or dangerous.

Nobody needs that.

You need to learn to not come across as scary/needy/desperate/ or picky/demanding ... or weird/odd.

I am human! I have strong tamperamental character, but always within normality and respect.

The girls have huge fears, many of them are paranoid, they are often traumatized, they afraid to explore a non-conformative man, they want men to tick their 'safe' boxes, which is often ridiculous.