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Oh god really struggling

I've tried everything possible to get rid of my debt its just not shifting. I am a single parent with a toddler.
My credit rating it to pot atm so I am unable to do a 0% balance transfer.
The interest rates are the problem
I have about 3000 :eek: worth of debt over 2 credit cards and 2 storecards
I only get about 700.00 a month altogether not much really
CC 1 23% minimum payment 80.00
CC2 6% minimum payment 30.00
SC 1 500 minimum payment 50.00
SC2 700 24.99% minimum payment 45.00
After all the other bills are accounted for I am only left with 175 for eveything Food,Travel, Clothing,Birthdays,Xmas,Holiday,Savings,Entertainment,Days out so it is hard to try and overpay more than the minimum payments. Expenses always seem to crop up so I am determined to build an emergency fund I don't have one atm. I need around 1000.
What can I possibly do.
I am finally admitting I need help this is the first step in the right direction :T
PUSH YOURSELF BECAUSE, NO ONE IFS GOING TO DO IT FOR YOU


A YEAR FROM NOW YOU WILL WISH YOU HAD STARTED TODAY
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  • Glitzer
    Glitzer Posts: 142 Forumite
    The first thing anyone on here will tell you to do is put together a Statement of Affairs (or SOA). People more experienced than myself (I still haven't done mine but am getting there slowly) will be able to advise you where you might be able to cut back, of expenses you haven't accounted for etc.
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 32,524 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts I've been Money Tipped! Name Dropper
    What can I possibly do.
    I am finally admitting I need help this is the first step in the right direction :T

    Hi,

    Stop paying them, that's what you should do.

    These accounts are clearly unaffordable at the moment, you should not be paying unsecured debt over your essential living costs.

    I would contact Stepchange, who are a free debt charity, and go over your options with them :

    http://www.stepchange.org

    This is the best course of action for you right now.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • Bobarella
    Bobarella Posts: 10,824 Forumite
    Savvy Shopper! I've been Money Tipped!
    Really hope you can get a handle on it soon. Can you earn more some how?
    " Your vibe attracts your tribe":D

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  • Hi and Welcome,


    I would advise as above- Statement of Affairs, and contact a debt charity.
    In the meantime-?up your income, get selling stuff,check your benefit entitlement, check your child maintenance payments are correct (or contact CMA if currently not receiving money from childs parent)
    good luck:)
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  • Dobbibill
    Dobbibill Posts: 4,202 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Mortgage-free Glee! Name Dropper
    Welcome to the forum,

    As suggested by others post a SOA, this will help for you to have tailored suggestions and help you see where savings can possibly be made, if anywhere.

    I wish you all the best
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Budgeting & Bank Accounts, Credit Cards, Credit File & Ratings and Energy boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.

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  • Well at the moment I have
    Prepayment 100-120 depending on how cold it is
    Water and Ct 42.00
    CC 1 80
    CC2 35
    SC1 50
    SC 2 45
    Broadband telephone 19
    mobile 35
    Family between 30-60
    Food 120-150
    And with whats left over it goes onto everything else Clothing Entertainment Savings Travel School obviously its not a lot left over.
    I have been on the phone today and managaed to lower one bill by 20.00 so happy with that and I plan on changing to monthly for gas and electric.
    PUSH YOURSELF BECAUSE, NO ONE IFS GOING TO DO IT FOR YOU


    A YEAR FROM NOW YOU WILL WISH YOU HAD STARTED TODAY
  • tallyhoh
    tallyhoh Posts: 2,318 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    No rent or anything? It would probably be best to fill the SOA in from the link, less likely to miss any oddments
    Tallyhoh! Stopped Smoking October 2000. Saved £29382.50 so far!
  • I'm ashamed to admit but i am on benefits at the moments hopefully I will be able to get a job in the new year.
    PUSH YOURSELF BECAUSE, NO ONE IFS GOING TO DO IT FOR YOU


    A YEAR FROM NOW YOU WILL WISH YOU HAD STARTED TODAY
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 32,524 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts I've been Money Tipped! Name Dropper
    edited 5 December 2015 at 5:44PM
    I'm ashamed to admit but i am on benefits at the moments hopefully I will be able to get a job in the new year.

    Should be paying each one £1 per month then if your not working.

    You need to prioritise your available income to your benefit, not your creditors.
    You should write to each one, telling them you are currently unemployed, and that you will, from now on, pay them £1 a month until further notice.

    Also say you will update them in six months time.

    I can almost guarantee this is the advice you would recieve from any of the debt charities.

    You should be paying no more than £4 a month to your creditors, thereby freeing up £200 for your essentials, it's common sense really.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • What would happen if I did than in terms of blacklisting and credit rating its just that I need an okayish score so that I will be able to be put on monthy gas and electric and prepayment is a rip off and I want a fixed rate.
    PUSH YOURSELF BECAUSE, NO ONE IFS GOING TO DO IT FOR YOU


    A YEAR FROM NOW YOU WILL WISH YOU HAD STARTED TODAY
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