Puberty - 8 year old girl

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

Hi,


Not really sure which board this falls under....


My 8 year old has started puberty - She's noticed hairs growing in the usual areas, and has noticed more that she is sweating.


We've spoken about it, even got a book from the library etc but I'm wanting to "give" her something (as she was quite upset that she "smelt" even though I tried to assure she didn't)


I was thinking of getting her one of those Nivea / other branded packs that have the roll on deodorant and a body spray. I'll do it in a way of explaining that I don't think she smells, but as she's conscious about it she might like them (I'll word it better!)


Whilst on one hand I don't want to make a big deal about it, I want to reassure her that, A, its normal, and B, that she can tell me these things and I will "do something" rather than just ignoring it.


I hope that makes sense?


Is there anything else that I could give her ?! (Other than throw chocolate at her from a safe distance which always works for me :rotfl: )

Peter333

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel wrote: »

Hi,


My 8 year old has started puberty - She's noticed hairs growing in the usual areas, and has noticed more that she is sweating.

We've spoken about it, even got a book from the library etc but I'm wanting to "give" her something (as she was quite upset that she "smelt" even though I tried to assure she didn't)

I was thinking of getting her one of those Nivea / other branded packs that have the roll on deodorant and a body spray. I'll do it in a way of explaining that I don't think she smells, but as she's conscious about it she might like them (I'll word it better!)

Whilst on one hand I don't want to make a big deal about it, I want to reassure her that, A, its normal, and B, that she can tell me these things and I will "do something" rather than just ignoring it.

I hope that makes sense? Is there anything else that I could give her ?! (Other than throw chocolate at her from a safe distance which always works for me :rotfl: )

I'm no expert, but that does sound VERY early. Puberty at EIGHT?

I think maybe you should take her to the doctor for some advice, and to confirm that what you think is happening, (puberty!) is actually happening, and it isn't something else.

fuzzyduck22

I agree with Peter, 8 does seem very early so a visit to the GP would be a good idea.

As for something to buy, you can check out pink parcel ( https://www.pinkparcel.co.uk/whats-in-the-box/ ) not sure if I can post links but you can google it. Its a box with sanitary products and some nice toiletries etc. I think it's aimed at teenagers but you could make your own box up with some nice bubble bath, shower gel and her own wash cloth and towel.

Rain_Shadow

Peter333 wrote: »

I'm no expert, but that does sound VERY early. Puberty at EIGHT?

I think maybe you should take her to the doctor for some advice, and to confirm that what you think is happening, (puberty!) is actually happening, and it isn't something else.

Eight is at the very earliest end of 'normal' in females. Precocious puberty is generally considered to be earlier than 7.


Still worth a check with the GP though.

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

See I thought that too - I spoke to her teacher who says quite a few girls in the year are showing signs ...


I'll give the doctors a call but I don't want to frighten DD.
I'll look at the pink parcel - Thanks!

Buttonmoons

My DD is 9 and she's getting hairy legs, 1 hair under her armpit, she now sweats too with a smell too it, breasts are growing - She hates it!! Doesn't want to wear a bra etc etc - however her best friend (same age) has hair in all the places, spots on her face - It's crazy how quickly they are developing these days.

I personally wouldn't take her to the doctor over something natural, some people just develop earlier than others.

fairy_lights

Boots do a deodorant for Kids which might be suitable
http://www.boots.com/en/Keep-It-Kind-Fresh-Kidz-Deodorant-Roll-on-50ml_1305069/

thriftyemma

I think you're being a very attentive and loving mother. Sorry if that sounds cheesy

I started getting similar 'symptoms' around 8-9. My mother sat me down, gave me a very factual talk about ovaries, and what happens once a month. She then put a pack of sanitary products in the bathroom cupboard and we never spoke of it again. I was so confused about the fact I was sweating, and growing hair in funny places, but I couldn't talk to her. Your daughter knowing you are there for her at a pretty confusing time will be a massive support to her.

I think you're doing the right thing. Maybe show her some pics/videos of sports women excelling at their game, and show her that all women sweat, iyswim. Perhaps you could get her a perfume aimed at younger girls? I know Barbie does one, but she might be a little old. Give it as an extra treat, rather than a 'you stink' kinda thing.

Sorry, I'm not great at explaining myself But you're on the right lines.

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel

@Fairy Lights that's fantastic thank you! I had no idea they existed.


@Thriftyemma - Thanks! I remember "the" conversation too - except it was my friend who had been told by her older sisters haha I've actually got DD a Minnie mouse Eau de toilette set that I got from boots last year - Santa had planned to bring it this year for her I'm worried about the "you stink" conversation and I hope I'll word everything right but she understands that she's my eldest and I'm also still learning as a parent

ognum

Mimi_Arc_en_ciel wrote: »

Hi,


Not really sure which board this falls under....


My 8 year old has started puberty - She's noticed hairs growing in the usual areas, and has noticed more that she is sweating.


We've spoken about it, even got a book from the library etc but I'm wanting to "give" her something (as she was quite upset that she "smelt" even though I tried to assure she didn't)


I was thinking of getting her one of those Nivea / other branded packs that have the roll on deodorant and a body spray. I'll do it in a way of explaining that I don't think she smells, but as she's conscious about it she might like them (I'll word it better!)


Whilst on one hand I don't want to make a big deal about it, I want to reassure her that, A, its normal, and B, that she can tell me these things and I will "do something" rather than just ignoring it.


I hope that makes sense?


Is there anything else that I could give her ?! (Other than throw chocolate at her from a safe distance which always works for me :rotfl: )

I would not want to give medical advice but there is a condition called ' precocious puberty ' I would have chat with your GP and they could give advice.

euronorris

8 is still within the normal age range.


I was 10 when my periods started, but I had already started to develop breasts at around age 9. One of my nieces was younger than me, starting at age 9.


I think what you are suggesting sounds very nice. Just don't do what my Mother did and announce to all the females in the family that I was now a woman!!! I was *mortified*!!