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Unplanned pregnancy...

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  • Peakma
    Peakma Posts: 728 Forumite
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    Think of it as a wonderful surprise,rather than a terrible shock!
    Finding out your pregnant when you have planned to have a baby is daunting,so I can only imagine what it must be like if you have a happy accident.
    When your baby is born,you'l understand,some things are just meant to happen.
    If your partner is honestly mad at you,then you and baby are better off without him.If he just appears mad at first,don't be to disheartened,his initial feelings of shock may come across as anger, but give him a couple of days to get used to it,and he should be treating you like the most important thing in the world(or that was always the pregnant fantasy I always had!-cant say he really did though!)
    good luck.
  • congratulations :)

    it's not too early to have morning sickness, some doctors or mums might tell you it doesn't start before 7 weeks but with my second baby i was being sick even before my period was late, with the first baby it started at 7 weeks though. conception doesn't always happen mid-cycle so it's possible that people getting morning sickness early on conceived early in the cycle.

    i hope the pain is nothing to worry about and you soon start to feel better
    xx
    'bad mothers club' member 13

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  • Carmina is right, I was feeling very sick and the tiredness was like beng hit by a truck and i was only just 4 weeks pregnant when i found out (so...only two weeks post ovulation really)

    thats great news about your partner,
    keep us posted! :)
  • Congratulations, Daddy's Girl - you've got a good one there! All the best wishes to you and your family :-)
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  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
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    Oh Im so pleased it went well

    All the best xx
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • r.mac_2
    r.mac_2 Posts: 4,746 Forumite
    just wanted to say that i'm really pleased for you. I'm pleased all went well when you told your partner - he sounds very understanding.

    good luck xx
    aless02 wrote: »
    r.mac, you are so wise and wonderful, that post was lovely and so insightful!
    I can't promise that all my replies will illicit this response :p
  • amandada
    amandada Posts: 1,168 Forumite
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    I'm so delighted that it's worked out like this-as you say, it proves why you're with this guy.
    I wish you all the luck and joy in the world :)

    (and yeah, there is no other tiredness like pregnancy tiredness!)
  • :T That is such good news! :T

    And your OH sounds like a real star. Well done that man!

    You cannot live as I have lived an not end up like me.

    Oi you lot - please :heart:GIVE BLOOD :heart: - you never know when you and yours might need it back! 67 pints so far.
  • im so glad this thread had a happy ending! i just read it all the way through, hoping you OH wouldnt be angry!

    me and my OH are engaged and were getting married next october, then, we want to move into our own place THEN we are going to have a baby. this is killing me, as ive been broody for the last 2 months now and have thought of nothing else. i even bought mother and baby magazine yesterday! my OH says im torturing myself.... hense im looking at baby threads!

    sorry, im rattling on! a very very VERY big hug to you! everyone on here ALWAYS say things work out in the end when it comes to babies. im sure youll all be fine! xxx
  • Congratulations:beer: I felt really tired at the begining of both my pregnancys, people just think you're making a fuss, but to be honest, I felt less tired further on, when people kept saying don't do too much, because I was bigger!!
    I had pains with my little girl, the doctor said these were common & they were inplantation pains, so try not to worry & the best of luck to you both:j
    Comping again - wins so far : 2 V festival tix, 2 NFL tix, 6 bottles of wine, personalised hand soap, Aussie miracle conditioner :beer:

    Married my best friend 15/4/16 :)
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