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Buffy's Savings Diary

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  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    Mum can only do "mess" for 24 hours, now it is all too much and she has made a few comments. I am not rising to the bait tho, she will have to suck it up. Just have to get it off my chest here instead!

    She doesn't like my plans for the conservatory - not that she knows what they are!

    I am not going to Pets at home, I shall pop in tomorrow on the way home from work, going today would be a pain in the bum so staying and tidying is the way forward.

    XXXXX
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,073 Ambassador
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    Keep plodding :) xx
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  • I think we must be distant cousins as our mothers are definitely related.
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    I think we must be distant cousins as our mothers are definitely related.
    :rotfl::rotfl:

    I did have to do some of BEST positive thinking today.

    She is not going to change. I can change.

    I have no money and have done no work. However I fixed the external fish filter and the baby guppies survived.

    Next weekend depending on the weather I am getting out in the garden if it kills. Going to do 15 minutes each day to the conservatory. One side looks great, it is just the other side to deal with now!

    XX
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • milasavesmoney
    milasavesmoney Posts: 1,787 Forumite
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    May I gently ask why you have not told your mom about the lump in your breast?
    Overprepare, then go with the flow.
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,073 Ambassador
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    Could answer that one but will leave to Buffy.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Sparkles87
    Sparkles87 Posts: 701 Forumite
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    Just checking in as haven't been around much but keep up on FB and noticed you hadn't been around much xx
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    May I gently ask why you have not told your mom about the lump in your breast?

    She has a heart condition, tends to get super stressed over everything and is currently adjusting to new meds. She is 79 and until I know precisely what I am dealing with I didn't want to tell her.

    I think I will have to tho as the op is looking likely. I have an appointment on Thursday to discuss.

    I don't exactly know what I am going to do to be honest!
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    beanielou wrote: »
    Could answer that one but will leave to Buffy.

    XXXXXX
    Sparkles87 wrote: »
    Just checking in as haven't been around much but keep up on FB and noticed you hadn't been around much xx

    just so busy and have awful toothache. Work is hell at the moment and I am so close to finishing the house it is all driving me nuts.
    Thanks tho xxxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • How long has that toothache been going on?
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
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