Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

Pyxis

tea_lover wrote: »

Pyxis, how are you this lucid after a holiday and a flight?? I can't string a sentence together when I get a train back from bristol!

tea_lover wrote: »

Police baby on his way round....for some reason I've just gone incredibly nervous. Getting bored of statements now!

Good luck, Tea. Do tell him all the latest, and ask him about what to do with the 'stuff'.

mellymoo74

Good luck tea.

Get them to be present at stuff handover

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Georgiegirl256

(((((Tea))))) I'm not surprised you're getting bored, you've had to give that many.

Sounds like a fun course Fly! Yes, fresh fish should not smell, and if it does, it's starting to go off. There's a new fishmongers opened up in town, well I say new, it's moved round from off the harbour where it probably didn't get much business. Me and my Mam decided to pop in the other week and popped out again just as fast! It stunk to high heaven! My MIL said she smelt it from the corner of the street. It's surprising really as they've usually got a good name. :huh:

tea_lover

You're all making me want fish now, love it!

Statements all up to date....so that's the letter from his mum, a phone call and the flowers recorded. Police baby is going to arrest him tomorrow.

We talked about the stuff. The police are going to tell FOH he has to contact me via a solicitor so hopefully it can be sorted soon. I've made it clear all along that I want it gone, and he's never mentioned it to them or me (only his mum has) so that all backs up my version of events.

Had got to the point where I can't go round in circles about this anymore, so am just letting the police sort it. Still have doubts about whether that's the right thing but I do know I can't carry on like this. Maybe being arrested will be the shock D needs to finally accept things. I still care about him very much, tbh I still love him, but I do realise that things have gone too far to ever be resolved. The whole relationship was so unhealthy even before his massive change of heart and stalking campaign. It breaks my heart but probably the best thing for both of us is to draw a line under it all and really move on. Just wish I could have one last conversation to explain why I'm doing this, he must think I hate him

pollyanna_26

Pleased to read this Tea .
I have loads to catch up on . Big hug and well done .
polly x

Pyxis

(((((((((((((Tea))))))))))))

Perhaps when it's all over, you could get an intermediary, a stalking counsellor person, to pass on your explanations? Only after being advised as to whether that's appropriate, though.

A stalking counsellor would probably be of great benefit to you, I do feel. You would be reassured about all the tumultuous feelings you've been experiencing. :A

Pyxis

In the last hotel, the staff had these lovely uniforms. I cropped their heads to secure their privacy, as I didn't ask them if I could post the picture on the internet.

There's something about a man in a sarong.............







A roadside Hindu temple, with tuc-tucs!

tea_lover

What beautiful fabrics pyxis.

whitewing

tea,

I am glad that police baby has caught up with you.

I would be more worried about you if you weren't wavering about the situation. I do think right now you should be guided by the professionals until you get some space from the break up.

Meanwhile, we seem to have established a strange Valentine Day tradition where we make cornflake cakes for my family and pretend they are from littlewing's toy giraffe. So we have done that this afternoon and I will put a few in the fort. They are our best ones yet.

Waves_and_Smiles

Welcome home, Pyxis!

My valentine's gift to WaSp has backfired on me! I am having to watch the game, he has managed to use a cable to put it on the tv so I can watch him play! Save me!