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Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

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  • pollyanna_26
    pollyanna_26 Posts: 4,839 Forumite
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    Was - Sending all the squishes and hugs you want sweetheart . The hardest part is done and yes if you can get it done you will be better for getting it over . The forms do mess with your head whoever you are but we are here if you have wobbles until the process is sorted .
    Last night it looked as if you couldn't do it . Oh look at you today !
    Love polly
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • Awww, thank you! The encouragement does help! I am so glad that the mental health section is done, I find it far easier to talk about immune disorders and arthritis. I actually think I can manage this today and I am proud of myself because 3 years ago I ended up in hospital due to this form because I really couldn't cope at all. So, I am doing much better this time and I am proud of that.
    Until one has loved an animal a part of one's soul remains unawakened - Anatole France

    If I knew that the world would end tomorrow, I would still plant apple trees today - Martin Luther King
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    See WaS your strong (original autocarrot string lol)

    Froo and tomcat attack brushes and mops Elsien cleaning is interesting.

    DVLA done
    NSPCC done
    Benefits fraud done

    Feel like an absolute heel.

    JRT madness just OH blew his nose this means barking g and headbutting a door as obviously he needs saving
  • Well done, Melly! You have done the right thing. The safety of the child is what is important, he is helpless to what his parents choose to do.

    Hahahaha! Your doggies are adorable Melly, as is Tom cat!
    Until one has loved an animal a part of one's soul remains unawakened - Anatole France

    If I knew that the world would end tomorrow, I would still plant apple trees today - Martin Luther King
  • pollyanna_26
    pollyanna_26 Posts: 4,839 Forumite
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    I am proud of you too. You did the wise thing of tackling the worst part first
    The remaining part will be less triggering and when you send it back you will feel relief . They really are the elephant in the room ( not the kind you like )
    polly x
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • pollyanna_26
    pollyanna_26 Posts: 4,839 Forumite
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    Sorry post above for Was .
    Melly well done to you too everyone seems very pro active today .
    polly x
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • Hahahaha! No, sadly not a cute little elephant in this case. The next worry is that there might be an assessment which would have to be done at home because I really will not manage to sit in a room of strangers, waiting. At my hospital appointments I wait in the corridor because I cannot be a small space with strangers, my psychosis makes me think that they can hear my thoughts and I get very confused and afraid. Last time, I didn't need an assessment so I am really hoping it will be the same this time,nothing has changed.
    Until one has loved an animal a part of one's soul remains unawakened - Anatole France

    If I knew that the world would end tomorrow, I would still plant apple trees today - Martin Luther King
  • mellymoo74
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    Tomcat has really blossomed WaS.
    Froo loves him and bounces squeaking when she sees him but he isn't having any of it so their still separate.

    He purrs when you walk in the room, has wrecked his scratch post, loves cow spider and Mr duck I think he's going to bring pressies which I have warned OH you can't tell him off for cos he thinks he's being helpful.

    I need to do OHS reconsideration today which I'm dreading.
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Still think bulldozer should be involved WaS
  • Aw, good luck Melly! You do your reconsideration and I will face my form again and we will battle through together.

    I am going to contact my bubbly bulldozer tomorrow. I will also email my psychiatrist in case they contact him.

    Tom cat does sound like a different cat to the one you had at first, he clearly knows he is loved and has a forever home. Makes me smile to hear about him.
    Until one has loved an animal a part of one's soul remains unawakened - Anatole France

    If I knew that the world would end tomorrow, I would still plant apple trees today - Martin Luther King
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