Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

Georgiegirl256

Thanks code I'm very photosensitive too, and I especially hate it when you can see the back of your own eyeball, it makes me feel sick and I nearly passed out once.

Georgiegirl256

Hugs (((Calley))) No one deserves to be threatened, and even without knowing all the ins and outs, I'm sure it was not your fault. Being truthful is always good, so you have done nothing wrong in the slightest. Is this a family member threatening you?

If it happens again, tell them you will call the police on them, and report them for harassment.

Hope the rest of the day pans put better for you

calleyw

Georgiegirl256 wrote: »

Hugs (((Calley))) No one deserves to be threatened, and even without knowing all the ins and outs, I'm sure it was not your fault. Being truthful is always good, so you have done nothing wrong in the slightest. Is this a family member threatening you?

If it happens again, tell them you will call the police on them, and report them for harassment.

Hope the rest of the day pans put better for you

No its not a family member but someone else. Yes I do deserve it as I have caused them distress and hassle and yes what you would cause harassment.

Yours

Calley

Birdie85

Hope the eye test isn't too bad Georgie. Of all of the health things that we have to put up with, eye tests are my least hated, although I do understand why some people would dislike them. It helps that I'm a little bit in love with my optician. :happyhear I don't mind seeing the back of my eyeball either, I find it quite fascinating! I don't like it when they get right in my face though... well, I don't like other opticians in my face, my current one smells nice and is lovely so I don't mind him at all! I had my eyes lasered 3 (??) years ago so I don't have to go to the optician as often as I used to and I sometimes miss wearing glasses, they come in handy for covering up eye bags!

Glad the phone didn't stay lost for too long MU! I'd hate to lose mine!

I don't really know what's going on with your family (?) Calley, but it sounds pretty stressful. Hope you feel better and can get away from any nastiness.

WaS, try not to worry about the ESA stuff, there's no way they'll stop giving you your benefits!

Escapette is a beauty Welly! I know it must be frustrating not being able to do much, but please be kind to yourself. A c-section is a big deal and people forget that it's not 'just childbirth' but a major thing to recover from! Glad that Little Sod is being a good big brother!

Georgiegirl256

calleyw wrote: »

No its not a family member but someone else. Yes I do deserve it as I have caused them distress and hassle and yes what you would cause harassment.

Yours

Calley

Oh, well I guess that puts a slightly different slant on things. I'm sure you don't need to be told, but just be very careful how you proceed from here on in. You don't want to give them anymore ammunition. Hope you manage to sort things out soon.

Birdie85 wrote: »

Hope the eye test isn't too bad Georgie. Of all of the health things that we have to put up with, eye tests are my least hated, although I do understand why some people would dislike them. It helps that I'm a little bit in love with my optician. :happyhear I don't mind seeing the back of my eyeball either, I find it quite fascinating! I don't like it when they get right in my face though... well, I don't like other opticians in my face, my current one smells nice and is lovely so I don't mind him at all! I had my eyes lasered 3 (??) years ago so I don't have to go to the optician as often as I used to and I sometimes miss wearing glasses, they come in handy for covering up eye bags!

:rotfl: Yes, they are very handy for covering up eye bags! I sometimes feel naked if I'm not wearing them! You are so brave getting your eyes lasered, it totally freaks me out, I've seen what they do!

The optician who I really liked has retired now He was lovely and not at all what you expect....he had long ginger dreadlocks! He spoke so slowly and softly and explained everything, he was very calming.

calleyw

Georgiegirl256 wrote: »

Oh, well I guess that puts a slightly different slant on things. I'm sure you don't need to be told, but just be very careful how you proceed from here on in. You don't want to give them anymore ammunition. Hope you manage to sort things out soon.

Yes I know.

There is stuff on both sides so not so one sided as I have made it out to be.

Yours

Calley

jobbingmusician

calleyw wrote: »

No its not a family member but someone else. Yes I do deserve it as I have caused them distress and hassle and yes what you would cause harassment.

Yours

Calley

Well, now you have us to be your friends and support you, hopefully things will look up for you. Maybe you could explain to the person you have caused harassment (or what might be seen as harassment) to in the past that you have more support now, and you can appreciate that you might have caused them problems in the past, you apologise and you are really trying to change now you feel a bit better?

(And then bring your problems into the fort and we'll see if we can help )

calleyw

jobbingmusician wrote: »

Well, now you have us to be your friends and support you, hopefully things will look up for you. Maybe you could explain to the person you have caused harassment (or what might be seen as harassment) to in the past that you have more support now, and you can appreciate that you might have caused them problems in the past, you apologise and you are really trying to change now you feel a bit better?

(And then bring your problems into the fort and we'll see if we can help )

At the moment I think its best that I have no contact with them at all.

They told me to go away and sort myself out. And then they might talk with me. They have there own issues at the moment a ill parent and there own health issues that could mean a fairly serious op. So think that is why they are being more aggressive than normal.

Yours

Calley

jobbingmusician

That's more difficult then. But it does sound to me as if the really most difficult bit is forgiving YOURSELF - remember to be kind to yourself and not to beat yourself up for things you can't change!

(BTW, hope my suggestion of bringing things to the fort didn't sound like nosiness - it's just reassurance that you have Team WaS to talk things through with now whenever you want to.)

Hugs and squishes! (((((()))))) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ xxxxxx

codemonkey

Is this your ex calley? If it is then he's a massive end of a bell.