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Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

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  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Your not stupid!
    Losing you from HSE will be a huge loss.

    Sent email love x
  • Pyxis
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    Ok, Fly, some visualisation needed, methinks.....

    Scenario 1. Stay in current industry and take the job.

    Scenario 2. Refuse job, stay in study at Uni with a view to the new prospects that that affords.

    Scenario 3. Take job and stay in study course.

    Scenario 4. Refuse job, stay in study but rethink what you really want to to do, even if it means another fresh start with something completely different.

    Imagine yourself in each scenario, and see which appeals the most.

    Then take it from there............
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  • Birdie85 wrote: »
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    Aw Fly, so many hugs!

    And absolutely correct, Birdie!!

    Next one:

    What is the name of Argus Flich's cat?

    HBS x
    "I believe in ordinary acts of bravery, in the courage that drives one person to stand up for another."

    "It's easy to know what you're against, quite another to know what you're for."

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  • Also, have you thought of talking all this through with your Uni tutor - including the fact that you (believe you) are struggling with the course?
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  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    Fly, (((hugs)))

    Fwiw, I'd listen carefully to your instincts here. It's natural to feel nervous and apprehensive before a new job starts (you remember what a state I was in a few months ago!) But these seem to be major concerns and it's good that you're putting some thought into it all.

    I don't know what to suggest, but I hope you know that we are all with you whatever the next few weeks and months bring.

    I'm in the same line of work, and would also be happy to connect on LinkedIn if a few more recruitment contacts would help. Just pm if that's of any interest, and noroblem whatsoever if you'd rather not. Take care sweetheart xx
  • Birdie85
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    Aw Fly, so many hugs!

    And absolutely correct, Birdie!!

    Next one:

    What is the name of Argus Flich's cat?

    HBS x

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  • Pyxis
    Pyxis Posts: 46,077 Forumite
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    How kind, Birdie!
    (I just lurve spiders!)
    INFJ(Turbulent).

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  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    edited 31 December 2015 at 3:23PM
    Right penguin

    I admit I'm anorexic and need help my usual coping strategy has failed. I admitted it to healthy minds yesterday I also admitted both the reasons for doing it (self harm, control).
    She was a bit hung up on body image so I'm not sure she got what I was saying.


    Please don't quote I will delete later feel a bit exposed
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    That is such a brave step melly, I'm really proud of you. xx
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Thank you tea.
    Doesn't feel brave feels exposed x
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