Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

Birdie85

Hello! Just catching up from the weekend and it looks like you've a right time of it, Tea! All great advice from everyone on here (of course, 'cos you're all so wise!). Just make sure that your FB is set to the highest privacy setting and it might be an idea to change passwords to everything just in case, I know you said he probably doesn't know, but you can't be too careful! You don't have some kind of cloud storage thingy that he can access do you? Dude needs to move on!

*zippy*

Another forum I'm on tea there was a lady in a similar situation, the guy stalked her and sent emails trying to get her back, she was advised by a stalking support number to not reply or give him any reason to think his efforts are working or getting to you. It has some name that eludes me, but it's basically ignoring them until they get bored. You are right to involve the police though as you need it noted xxx

Yes you are all lovely thank you. Very true whitewing he would have been in shock and embarrassed,I'm just feeling angry towards the toad as no doubt he's at the centre of this.

elsien

http://www.stalkinghelpline.org/
Just in case. Maybe his mum should be contacting his GP on his behalf?

Sympathies melly. I only had a couple of days of it and I was ready to kill somone. No useful suggestions, just lots of empathy and understanding heading your way.
Are there any other neighbours it's affecting who are willing to speak up? (Probably asked this before.) The bass thumping noises from my noisy neighbours went through my house and rattled the furniture of my neighbours on the other side, who are willing to keep a noise diary as well if I want them to.
Alternatively, are you up to a day out somewhere more peaceful to give yourself a break?

codemonkey

Oh my goodness tea. If calling the police and his mother hasn't made a difference, he's seriously lost it. Th ironic thing is, if he'd put at least 10% of this effort in 6 months ago, you might have been able to save the relationship. Now he's just being creepy. Does he really think stalking ans intimidating you is appealing in some way?

I am getting old. I watched Snow Days earlier and just kept thinking 'Stop it you horrible little brats. That man is just doing his job.'.

Georgiegirl256

Sounds like he's having some sort of break down tea Will you be speaking to his Mum again? I'd let her know exactly what he's said, and then hopefully she might be able to get him the help it sounds like he needs.

Is the thread stretched width ways for anyone else?

mellymoo74

Unfortunately it only affects us which is crap
I'm am taking my leathery cheeks shopping.
On plus point I styled my new hair it took 10 min and look ace.

Tea that was the point to it. You need it for evidence but you need to not read them.

tea_lover

Birdie85 wrote: »

Dude needs to move on!

Haha! This is the catchphrase of my week :rotfl:. Maybe the police could send him a note saying that!

Pyxis

Yes, the thread is stretched.

It's usually due to images that are too large, but there aren't any on this page!

tea_lover

I'm on the old layout and it's not stretched for me - if that helps

Pyxis

tea_lover wrote: »

I'm on the old layout and it's not stretched for me - if that helps

But I'm on the old (green) layout too, and it is stretched! Weird!edit....now I'm on a new page, it's ok again!
(But page 230 is stretched).