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The Ashley Madison Hack

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  • Kaye1
    Kaye1 Posts: 538 Forumite
    Judi wrote: »
    A website that helps you have an affair?:eek:

    Whatever next.

    Who in the right mind would register on a website because you want/are having an affair? I thought that sort of thing was done in private.

    I must be living on a different planet to everyone else.


    I though exactly the same! Never even heard of such a thing. So, I realise that people mis-use dating sites but never heard of a site that actually is for people looking for an affair. Well, I never.
  • gabriel1980
    gabriel1980 Posts: 317 Forumite
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    Controversial or different views always get viewed as being from a TROLL. Which is just a way to invalid said view or opinion.
  • fairy_lights
    fairy_lights Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    Controversial or different views always get viewed as being from a TROLL. Which is just a way to invalid said view or opinion.
    Well if you're not a troll and genuinely do think cheating is excusable then I pity your girlfriend.
  • amistupid
    amistupid Posts: 55,997 Forumite
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    There's usually a reason for an affair to be conducted.

    For most men it's "My wife doesn't understand me."
    In memory of Chris Hyde #867
  • ognum
    ognum Posts: 4,879 Forumite
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    OP you have cited many theory's but not given your opinion on having an affair what is your opinion then?
  • gabriel1980
    gabriel1980 Posts: 317 Forumite
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    My opinion on having an affair is that I personally wouldn't have one as I don't have the time or inclination and having one woman impose demands on you is more than enough. However, I also don't demonise men or women that do until I know the whole story. I don't believe that cheating is the worse thing you can do in a relationship.
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    Looks like someone is trying to justify membership of this sordid website by playing the "already betrayed" card. What absolute and utter tosh! And yes, cheating is the worst way of breaking up a relationship. Nasty, nasty, nastier.
  • Addiscomber
    Addiscomber Posts: 1,010 Forumite
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    Judi wrote: »
    A website that helps you have an affair?:eek:

    I must be living on a different planet to everyone else.

    It is OK, Judi, You are not alone. I'm living on your planet too. Fancy a cuppa?
  • System
    System Posts: 178,422 Community Admin
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    It is OK, Judi, You are not alone. I'm living on your planet too. Fancy a cuppa?

    yeah we can swap notes.:)
    This is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com
  • gabriel1980
    gabriel1980 Posts: 317 Forumite
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    thorsoak wrote: »
    Looks like someone is trying to justify membership of this sordid website by playing the "already betrayed" card. What absolute and utter tosh! And yes, cheating is the worst way of breaking up a relationship. Nasty, nasty, nastier.


    You realise you have to pay to be a member right? And I never pay for membership of anything on the Internet.
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