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I'm really scared about my son

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  • Frogletina
    Frogletina Posts: 3,914 Forumite
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    Thanks for all the kind messages I've received today.

    I have spent the day with him. I felt much better once I got to the hospital and was able to see him.

    The doctors want to bring him out of his coma tomorrow morning and I will be there with him along with my daughter in law.

    frogletina
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  • jackomdj
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    Thanks for the update, I have been popping in a few times today to see if you have had a chance to reply.

    I know you said that they have issues, but you post as if you like your DIL I hope you are both OK. I hope all goes well tomorrow,
  • Frogletina
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    jackomdj wrote: »
    Thanks for the update, I have been popping in a few times today to see if you have had a chance to reply.

    I know you said that they have issues, but you post as if you like your DIL I hope you are both OK. I hope all goes well tomorrow,

    Thank you.

    Yes, I do like my DIL. She's just texted me goodnight and hopes that I manage to sleep. It will be a long day tomorrow for us.

    frogletina
    Not Rachmaninov
    But Nyman
    The heart asks for pleasure first
    SPC 8 £1567.31 SPC 9 £1014.64 SPC 10 # £1164.13 SPC 11 £1598.15 SPC 12 # £994.67 SPC 13 £962.54 SPC 14 £1154.79 SPC15 £715.38 SPC16 £1071.81⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Declutter thread - ⭐⭐🏅
  • Anoneemoose
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    So sorry to hear this, you must be distraught. I really hope tomorrow brings some positivity and hope for you all. I also hope your son gets some specific help to ensure he doesn't feel like this is his only option ever again.

    Thinking of you all.xx
  • Hmm, problems in the marriage so bad that he would do this? I would offer to have him at your house, find out exactly what is going on, don't let him go back there.
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  • Kaye1
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    That's positive news, sending you and your all the best.
  • harrys_nan
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    Sending you some very good wishes for today, I hope your news is good. I hope your son gets the help and advice he needs xx
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  • Hmm, problems in the marriage so bad that he would do this? I would offer to have him at your house, find out exactly what is going on, don't let him go back there.

    It could be many things - having an illness such as depression, which can come from anywhere, well, that can put a strain on a relationship that is actually very healthy and supportive, for example. I would be reluctant to assume there is a particular cause before there's been a chance to physically recover and talk.

    I hope everybody involved is given the support they need at such a difficult time, which includes Frogletina and her DIL as well.
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  • Blackpool_Saver
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    It could be many things - having an illness such as depression, which can come from anywhere, well, that can put a strain on a relationship that is actually very healthy and supportive, for example. I would be reluctant to assume there is a particular cause before there's been a chance to physically recover and talk.

    I hope everybody involved is given the support they need at such a difficult time, which includes Frogletina and her DIL as well.

    I am not assuming anything I am being cautious, still think Mum should have a good long chat before he goes 'home'.
    Blackpool_Saver is female, and does not live in Blackpool

  • Frogletina
    Frogletina Posts: 3,914 Forumite
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    My son is back on sedation tonight. He was taken off it today but not responsive enough to be permanently remain off it.

    However, by this afternoon he was breathing by himself.
    Not Rachmaninov
    But Nyman
    The heart asks for pleasure first
    SPC 8 £1567.31 SPC 9 £1014.64 SPC 10 # £1164.13 SPC 11 £1598.15 SPC 12 # £994.67 SPC 13 £962.54 SPC 14 £1154.79 SPC15 £715.38 SPC16 £1071.81⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐Declutter thread - ⭐⭐🏅
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